Sometimes women say nice things to me and hint that they'd want to go out with me. They say I'm cute and sweet and stuff, that very well might just me being bad at interpretating hints however. Some have asked me to go on dates but I don't see the point in actually taking a woman up on the offer if there was no point in going past the bedroom door.I'd just have to shake her hand and tell her I had a good time at dinner or something. I have no clue what I would do with a woman at that point. Just let her know she's going to be disappointed and give her a chance to change her mind? I've had one girlfriend when I was a teenager who was a virgin so it didn't really matter as much. But I don't know how you date as an adult with a small penis. Is this why polygamy is thing? I don't want to be in a polygamous relationship.Mine is 4.5 inches long and 4.5 inches in circumference for reference.Through most of my 20s it never mattered to me, I just assumed it's not like a woman would want to date me anyway. But since about 28-29 women have started flirting with me a lot. I'm 30 now, so maybe it's worth actually considering now. Thank you in advance.
I guess it depends
>>34479707oh man I don't meet either minimum. that's unfortunate.
>>34479709Just get a smaller woman. Even 6 inch dicks can hit the cervix on certain positions
>>34479716I don't mean to sound dumb but is that really how it works? Small women prefer smaller penises?
>>34479696Alot of shallow women will, anon. It depends what you are really looking for. My partner has a smaller penis than yours and I don't care because they support me and autistic nonsense. That is what matters to me.
>>34479696i've had a crush on this one guy for almost a year and i've thought about it a few times, i wouldn't mind if he had a micropenis or something.some women care, but not at all. this is one of those things that is just a personal preference, everyone is different.
>>34479734how do you tell what their preference would be then?
>>34479736dunno i only know my own preference. but i've been called easy to talk to and open minded (like very open to trying other people's hobbies and such things instead of just sticking to things i already like). i think generally open-minded people don't tend to have particularly hard preferences about sexual things. just my opinion ofc.
>>34479745On a side note do you know how to tell if a woman has daddy issues? Every woman I talk to it seems like they're interested in me because they might have daddy issues or something. They always start referring to me as daddy after a day or so. I dunno if there's like a rampant societal issue about it or anything, but it feels like I would just be filling a role for them. It would be nice to meet a woman who liked me for me instead of just wanting me to fill a role for those issues.Not that I'm weirded out by it or anything. I don't find it offensive and I don't really judge about that stuff, everyone has problems and I'm certainly no better. I just dunno why it's been every one of them either. Maybe that's just the only kind of women I attract. Is this common?
>>34479696>Do women care if your pp is small?This depends on the woman. Some women have bigger priorities than her partner's dick size.>I don't see the point in actually taking a woman up on the offer if there was no point in going past the bedroom door.Why not? Relationships aren't only about sex.>Is this why polygamy is thing?No.
>>34479766No I know they're not only about sex, that'd be silly. But I'm not blind to the fact it's a major component, and if that major component was absent, a relationship wouldn't last long.
>>34479764to me that's always been really cringe but thankfully not a thing anyone would say in my country and there isn't really any equivalent. personally idk whether i have daddy or mommy issues, perhaps both, i had a (shitty) single dad.no idea about how common it is. but i do think it's fine if a woman wants someone they feel safe with and someone who can fill that masculine role, because men are also looking for a woman to fill that feminine nurturing role in their lives. but of course you should look for someone who wants to be with you for you, not for what you can give. and this goes for both men and women imo.
>>34479780I see that makes sense, I appreciate it.
hell yeah they carethey care 24/7 all the time
>>34479696there are men with smaller cocks than mine fucking their hot gfs while I'm still a virgin. If you find a cool woman and she likes you, she will entusiastically suck your cock and make you feel good. If you let your insecurities control you, you will never experience the good things you can do with a woman.t. insecure guy that ruined a lot of relations with receptive woman
>>34479707>Boyfriend dick is real
>>34479696By the time a woman meets your penis, she has already decided whether she likes you.
>>34479696The average vagina is 3 inches deep.
>>34481534How's that possible? I don't mean to sound dumb I'm just confused at how that's possible. It's not like she'd know beforehand how big it is so that's the exact point at which she'd decide if she didn't like it or if it wasn't good enough. Or do they typically ask way before that?
>>34481669if she did not liked you at all, she would reject you before seeing your dick.
>>34479766Relationships aren't only about sex, but sex and sexual attraction is foundational. It's like how a house isn't only its foundation. You can't have the walls and a roof without it, at least not for long.
>>34481689well yeah I would assume so.
>>34481669Assuming that there is more to you than your dick size, if she has decided she likes and/or desires you, your dick size will not be a dealbreaker
>>34481669They mainly care about your face, race and height. They know if they want to have sex with you within a split second of looking at you.
>>34479696the first date is not for sex, anon. that comes later. I've never heard from any fellow women that they left a guy because of penis size, that's just something women say after getting dumped to attempt to save their pride. but it doesn't work because all the other women know they're full of shit and embarrassed.
>>34479696There is no universal answer.Some care, some won’t. You just have to work with what you have and let women decide if it’s worth it, unless you’re willing to go through the cost and process of getting a penis enlargement, which is not something I’d want to go through.I’m below average, but I’ve gotten good at using my mouth and hands to where I’ve had a few relationships and some consistent FWB situations.
>>34481669A woman won't see your penis until the first time you have sex. That means her decision to have sex with you must happen before she sees it. And she won't decide to have sex with you unless she likes you. How are you imagining this happens? You think she'll say one day "I'm considering fucking you; show me your dick and let me measure it, and then I'll decide"? That is not how it works. >>34479696>Mine is 4.5 inches long and 4.5 inches in circumference for reference.That's not small, it's average.
>>34479696>prior to sexnope, and by the point she's decided "we're fucking", pretty much regardless of what you pull out, she's gonna get it off>after sexkinda but mostly not really. pic related, unless you've got a micro-D or a life-ruiner mega cock, odds are overwhelming the dominating quality factor in your sex isn't your dick but your cardio and bodily aesthetics, both of which you can consciously improve.
>5.5x5.5Is this considered average or small or above average or what?
I have done an enourmous amount of research on this topic because penis size has always been my greatest insecurity. Most women tend to only really want a "not small" penis. Rather than lusting after huge dicks. The proportion of "size queen" women is really small probably 15% or so. A solid 50% of women won't even cum from penetration at all. But even most of these don't want the knowledge that their man has a small dick, because women are these herd animals who instinctively conform to other womens standards rather than think for themselves. Women are also very poor at spatial awareness. So realistically if your dick is anywhere close to average size she can be made to believe its average or even big just because she cant judge the size of things well. Like 90% of us are fine, the insecurity being below average causes is worse than actually being below average in most cases.
>>34482935Average length, well above average girth.(Exactly average is 5.2" length x 4.6" girth. Anything between about 4.7"-5.6" would be considered average length; anything from 4.3"-4.9" would be considered average girth.)
>>34482779>>34482935>>34483236well we can't both be average we have very different sized penises.>>34479707also this guy's screencap says Im well below the minumum for both a one night stand or serious relationship.
>>34483754You will die, remember that. Will you waste your time here thinking about that instead of living and having experiences?
>>34482779>You think she'll say one day "I'm considering fucking you; show me your dick and let me measure it, and then I'll decide"?No I imagine it would be one of the three>she likes me enough to go on a few more dates but eventually ends it over the size of my penis.>she disappointingly has sex with me out of pity because she doesn't want to hurt my feelings but I never hear from her again.>she's willing to have sex with me initially but backs out after seeing the size of my penis.I don't think these are ridiculous scenarios. I've seen a couple facetious replies that some women would pity fuck me or just bite the bullet to save me the embarrassment the first time but it doesn't logically mean they would be satisfied with it. I guess I'm not able to make the logical leap that>pity = fine with the sizemakes sense. Just because I may successfully get laid doesn't mean I have anything to offer. But that's exactly why I don't want to get laid as I painted in my first post. I don't see the point in getting laid if I have to suffer through embarrassment.
>>34483777Well, use that as a filter, if she's not ok with your body, why would you want to be with her? Find a woman that likes you.>But that's exactly why I don't want to get laid as I painted in my first post. I don't see the point in getting laid if I have to suffer through embarrassment.then don't, that's your choice
>>34483771what experiences?
>>34483794only you can answer, we are different people, and we differ in what we like, I can't tell you what to do.
>>34483777>I don't think these are ridiculous scenarios.Well, you're wrong. They're absolutely deranged.
>>34483783so I shouldn't reciprocate any interest with these women?
>>34483827why would you? if they don't like you, it's not worth to waste your time on them. It's better to use this time to find one that likes you.
>>34483865Maybe I haven't been articulating this well enough. Sorry I'm kinda slow. I don't know if they'd like my penis or not. They show interest but that interest isn't with the knowledge that I have a small penis. They may even think I have a big penis. So I don't know if its a good idea to reciprocate interest or not. I usually just end it before it gets sexual to save the embarrassment.
>>34483892I see.Reciprocate, see if the woman is into you, if she's not, go to the next.>I usually just end it before it gets sexual to save the embarrassment.well, if they try to embarrass you, that say more about then than you, you would not want to be with a woman like her I bet.
>>34479707How can any study conducted? Did they ask a hundred women about the length and circumference of their ideal partner or actual partner? Did they go measure their actual partners dick? And their previous hookups? Did they show them pictures of dicks and told them to pick which one they liked? Seriously, how?
>>34479696Go to >>>/r9k/
