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> me, 20F a loser girl cashier from a small town... I get no niggas
>Decide to figure out how to get a bf somehow
>Post myself on dating sites and social media trying to get male attention
>Works
>Start talking to lots of guys, they take me on 'dates' that are hookups but with benefits cuz men love giving me money and whatever I want
>Notice a pattern that men only wanna spoil me a lil, fuck, then leave. I don't get it
>Fast forward 5 years
>My body count is in the 100s
>I have over 1000 followers on FetLife and Snapchat
>I don't know how to have a real romantic relationship because I've only had sexual flings that meant nothing
>Scared to form a romantic connection and worried I might never be able to
>All I wanted was a bf and instead I lusted for attention from men online and now idk if anyone will ever love me
>Tired of one night stands that go nowhere
>Why can't I find a boyfriend
>Am I cooked?
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I just farted.
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Assuming this isn't larp you're going to need more help than 4chan is capable of giving, seek a professional
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>>34480217
don't worry, no self respecting dude would ever even consider a relationship with a whore like you, so it isn't really in your cards to begin with.
Unless you lie like all women amd build your life up on a cardboard foundation bound to fall.
My advice? Get a pimp.
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Nah this is real lol.

I know I'm a whore but I think I can still find love haha. I hear you about a pimp but idk...
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>>34480217
Women are like pretty flowers for us men. Really pretty, very pretty. Lovely colors and many soft silky petals. The virgin girl has all of her petals intact. If she has sex, one gets ripped off. Then another man fucks her? Two petals ripped off. That flower isn't looking so pretty. Three ripped off, four, five, six.. by the double digits that flower is ugly, no petals, withering, just a used up bud on frail stem.
The man's eyes look to all the other flowers all the other women around you who didn't skank out. They don't even see you as an option. The idea of loving a flower like that feels to them the same as taking all of their life savings out of the bank and setting it on fire.

That's just reality femanon, you need to accept that you did that to yourself. You allowed that to happen, you need to hold yourself accountable. There will be at least (one) man who will love you, cherish you even marry you and have kids by you. But you won't find him here. You will need to get on your knees, and only this time instead of getting on your knees to defile yourself, you get on your knees to pray, and you pray and pray to God. Pray for a Godly man to be sent your way, one clean in spirit who will look past your sins and choose to love you. That's the only type of man who will claim you.
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>>34480257
you can't. No man will EVER love you knowing your full history unless he is some mindbroken cuck who enjoys humiliation, or fucking Jesus. You being loved for who you are is out of the question for an actually good guy.
Your other option is living a lie, like most women, might as well make an OF and earn from your life choices.
Fucking yuck.
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>>34480217
You will never be a woman.
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I'm crying holy shit why did I do this to myself. Been wanting to kill myself because of it I just want to find love. That fucking hurt to read, but I need to hear it. What should I do? Keep working my shitty minimum wage job and trying or idk lol
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>>34480305
You did it to yourself because you were hungry for words. This words were:
"I love you"
"I am proud of you."
"I'll always be with you."

You probably rarely if ever heard those words in your life. You were empty inside and you were desperate to fill that void, so you thought letting men fill your body would make you feel whole and it didn't so you kept going and going and you created your own Hell without realizing it.

What you should do is go and learn what love actually is for yourself. And don't look in sexual degeneracy this time.
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I am in Hell wtf why did I do this to myself. I'm gonna try to turn my life around
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>>34480336
>I-I'm ready to settle down
LMFAO
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>>34480305
bro after a hundred bodies you should go under quarantine.
Lie to your next naïve biblethumper bf, give him kids, and after 20 years watch as your reality crumbles when he eventually sees what you really are. This is quite literally your best case scenario.
No.2 is getting pimped amd having an OF.
Best of luck, stupid :)
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lmao fuck youuuu why don't y'all have the same standards for the men who fuck every girl he sees
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>>34480336
>I am in Hell wtf why did I do this to myself. I'm gonna try to turn my life around
Yep. And when you are in Hell you attract people possessed in wicked spirit. Look at the comments in your thread, reminding you of your sin, mocking and jeering and laughing at your self inflicted pain. This is Hell. Notice how they attack the name of Jesus or God when they're mentioned? The enemy does not want you to survive. As I said, pray to God and seek shelter in the Lord.
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>>34480355
we pump and dump easy pussy.
We commit and give children to good women.
You are not a good woman, your pussy is a wishing well
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I never chose the hoe life it chose me
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>>34480355
Despite all of the Jewish bullshit you bought wholesale, men and women are not equal.
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>>34480366
I'm pretty sure you chose to be a whore because you were a mid ugly cashier who never got attention
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>>34480217
>I accidentally slept with 100 guys
Surely by the 20th or 30th or even 50th you would have clued in?
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How am I not a good woman tho? That's crazy it really is a man's world
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>>34480370
naaah bro, the 31st guy surely loved her for her personality, not the sloppy blowjob behind the store during break.
Little did he know he was worth the same as the 32nd guy the day after.
What a rank bitch, wow.
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>>34480374
Everyone is fundamentally good. Men and women. There are those who do bad actions, have bad feelings or bad thoughts or all three. And when you cover your life with those, people just see "bad person" and cannot see the good in you. The only one who can at that point is God.
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>>34480374
men and women have inverse sexual value, moron.
You are the incel of women, the lowest of the low.
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>>34480355
Statistically, the men who have sex with the most women have sex with the women who have sex with the most men.

It's not that "Chad gets all the virgins", it is that a handful of diseased hoes are sleeping around with a handful of diseased manwhores and all the good girls marry good men in their early 20s.

So yes? I do judge equally. Water seeks its own level.
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>>34480374
Your only value is as a sex object and you have been heavily used to the point that you no longer function as intended. You are a broken fuck toy. That's what the rest of your life looks like. Until you hit your early 30s at best and no one even wants to use you anymore.
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>>34480384
Chad has to be handsome and have social skills. Women have to exist and show hole.
We are not the same.
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>>34480217
If you fucked literally hundreds of men and still couldn't figure out how to hold a relationship then you should've stopped hooking up and took time off to figure it out way earlier. You might as well embrace that sexual aspect of yourself and find a guy who is super into sex too. Maybe date a pornstar or someone like that

>>34480364
And people like you will go to a special place in hell for perpetuating the misery by leading people like OP through games like this
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>>34480305
>Been wanting to kill myself because of it I just want to find love. That fucking hurt to read, but I need to hear it.
I gotta rest now OP. I'll leave you with this: You can find redemption and you can have forgiveness and you can know what it is like to love & be loved. You can be renewed in spirit, and when your spirit is renewed your old self is washed away, you are washed clean of your past. You will be as spotless as the day before you fell to evil. The men who would hate you depart, the men who would use you for sex depart, they scatter. Because none of them will want to challenge God. When God shields your spirit with his mantle, you are safe. And from that place of recovery, you will meet a Godly man and you can know love. Do not end your life, and do not give yourself to a man who you know does not love you. Seek God and be patient for a short while, and you will know love.

Good night OP
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>>34480381
lmao fuck off retard, nobody wants a biohazard prostitute for a partner.
Her only chance at a 'normal' life is predating on an unsuspecting victim who would get PTSD from knowing her as a person.
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>>34480398
You really overestimate Chad. You know he's just a cartoon character, right? Nothing but a caricature of some idealized "hot guy". In reality, drunk girls give it away for free to pretty much everyone and the only thing holding you back is social anxiety. But that social anxiety is actually saving you from your own stupidity if you think that going out and sleeping around is the perfect life. The only difference between a 4channer who idolizes "Chad" and OP is that OP was more successful in degrading themselves.
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>>34480217
That doesn’t sound celibate.
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>>34480414
so is Jesus
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>>34480289
This is cope
He’s saying this to make himself feel better.
The truth is no matter what you done, the world doesn’t care. People do good or evil all the time & it changes nothing.
You can probably bewitch some simp
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>>34480410
This doesn't work for pussies, they stay loose and diseased. She'll put on all the trappings of being a "good girl" and finally get a nice guy in her bed and he will take one look at it and know exactly what she is.
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>>34480420
>people don't care unless you hide your core self and manipulate them
lol totally not true. Your room temp IQ is showing, go to sleep.
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>>34480420
Don't say that. Settling for a beta is a fate worse than death for most women
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>>34480420
I literally don't know a single guy who would openly admit to be in a relationship with the town bike, regardless if they fucked, or if they are an incel or not.
I fucked plenty of fats and sluts, but I would never openly tell anyone I did that, ew.
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>>34480435
>I fucked plenty of fats and sluts, but I would never openly tell anyone I did that, ew.
That's because you are a coward with two faces.
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>>34480445
No I just always tell them it's our little secret because they're easy and fall for it :)
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>>34480451
Does it make you feel less dead inside each time you do this?
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>>34480457
nah I don't really care, I forget their names the next day and go to work.
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>>34480468
So the answer is no. You don't really care because you can't care. I don't think you have that in you, to care. It must be a very cold life.
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>>34480217
Why do women like youbcall yourself femcel? Is it just fashionable?
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>>34480476
I guess I'm the man version of OP, but as a man I can't really be tainted, it's only a plus for me. Unlike her I feel no guilt and my exploits give me a smile and an erection.
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>>34480489
You are the man version of OP. And despite being her brother in pain, you would have her continue her fall, you would feel happy if she were to perish. No mercy in you. So on the day when you are at the end of your rope, do you think you would deserve mercy yourself?
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>>34480503
bro what pain? Every ounce of affection I got I EARNED. I would never ever double dip in a whore, the fuck's the matter with you?
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>>34480510
You earned? That's what you think love is? That you need to earn it? Prove yourself? Consider yourself as what if you cannot earn it? Unlovable? Is that why you try to earn it, because that's exactly what you feel about yourself? Love is free you fool. Have you never had someone in your life choose to love you just because they wanted to? With no strings attached and no expectations imposed on you?
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>>34480525
I have anti social personality disorder and am generally unfeeling. Towards women I am just a predator, seeking the most vulnerable to exploit and discard. They are sex objects and distractions when I'm not drinking with my buddies.
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>>34480217

Nigga have you considered closing up your legs and waiting for your little heart to start beating for a cute femboy without daddy issues kicking in?
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>>34480541
You actually believe that label? Antisocial personality disorder, funny because that's what they tried to slap on me too. Did you really allow strangers you never met in psychological backgrounds to define the entire shape of your whole damn life with four letters "ASPD"? Why'd you let them do that?
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>>34480560
because it's true and it's congruent with a lifelong pattern upon which my parents also agree.
I don't care either way. I can only have cognitive empathy after the fact I hurt someone. I'm chemically unable to give a shit about other people.
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>>34480305
Idk, man, I don't know what to tell you
Stop immidiately what you are doing. Don't entertain men who are there to just fuck you

A guy who is serious and looking for a wife is going to judge you, weigh you up, your character, your actions, your words, because he has to trust you with his life. And you should do the same. Fucking over 100 men is not a great sign of a future wife, i'm not going to lie to you. But the best thing you can do is go cold turkey on dating for a few years. Ground yourself, ween yourself off of attention, then try to find a man that is serious and looking for a long term partner. When you get to that point, you need to know what a serious man looks like and distinguish between men just fooling around

A man serious about finding a long term partner will not shower you with gifts and spoil you right out the gate. That might sound controdictory to a fembrain, but think about it from a man's perspective. He wants to find a wife, not a gold digging whore. Have boundaries. Have standards. Expect boundaries and standards. Stop fucking around and chasing instant gratification. You can recover I believe, if you stay away from men for a few years. You might feel lonely, you might feel needy and what ever, but pain is weakness leaving the body and soul. You are a dopamine junkie and you need to stop and take a long reset

Once you are back in the dating scene, don't use dating sites. Make a social circle, do some hobbies that allow you to meet people (and men). Do not tell him your cock mileage. Yes, it is sort of deciteful but you will probably sabotoge yourself being honest. I mean you can if you want but don't expect it to go well
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>>34480609
bro she can be a nun for 3 lifetimes and still remain a petri dish of sadness and ick
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>>34480589
Chemically unable. Do you know which chemicals? Do you think the quacks can maybe lodge a needle into your skull and extract some of those "ASPD" chemicals and squirt it into a petri dish? Maybe take a microscope and look at all the antisocial molecules under the lens? I don't know about you but it sounds like you've been lied to. I also only had cognitive empathy and zero empathy. I didn't just hurt people and feel nothing I used to enjoy it, too. I'll save you more posts but just wanna say: You've had wool pulled over your eyes. That pattern has an origin, and empathy can be salvaged from it. But the longer you let quacks call you an "ASPD", the longer you are kept in the dark.
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>>34480618
If there is a chance of recovering her ability to "pair bond" or love, then this is it. And the time will help her set her head straight and mentally mature. By the time she's 24, maybe
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>>34480623
didn't read bro, you're preachy and annoying.
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Lol when I said femcel I mean the woman version of an incel btw
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>>34480217
what a weak bait thread lol
if this is how you see woman, no wonder you can't touch a tit to save your life
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>>34480638
Guess I'm cooked I'm 25
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Try a guy you are slightly attracted to instead of completely attracted to.
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>>34480487
Emotionally celibacy rather than sexual is basically the version for women, so in those terms yeah she's a femcel
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>>34480747
>cooked by your sexual half-life
Lmao it must be so brutal to be a woman knowing inately that you bear no responsibility for your actions because you're never really an adult and moving through life that way only to realize after you've passed your peak that society does expect you to take responsibility for it and you have to live with the horrible choices you've made for the rest of your life, lonely and sexless. I almost feel bad. Almost.
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Definetly not sexless, lmao
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>>34480217
>lives in small town
>body count over 100
>not considered the "town whore" by everyone
I'll take "things that never happened" for 100+
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>>34480971
it's a very badly redacted rage bait thread
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>>34480305
Look into spiritual healing. Crystals, detox, meditation, all that shit. You will walk a very trepidous path as you grow older, it is likely you have a serious karmic blockage getting in the way of your energy. try to focus on self love now so that you can continue making positive choices in the future and keep your head up you never know what life brings.
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>>34480542
Good advice
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>>34480228
tell us more anon. better topic then the baitlarp op.
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>>34480971
Ok unc, we're not talking about your 1980s living in the boonies where people were fucking their cousins. Women can easily go through dozens of men and no one will be any the wiser. Men mindfuck themselves just trying to figure out if a woman is a virgin or not.
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>>34481040
this
>>34481347
>Men mindfuck themselves just trying to figure out if a woman is a virgin or not.
okay, schizo
just think that every woman is a whore and you can free up 90% of the rent in your head
you can thank me later
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ur not an anything-cel
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>>34480217
You’ll need to find a man who has just as bad of a past as you do. That way your relationship will be equal.
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>>34481400
I kinda agree. You can tell in how selective she is in how talks to people. Always go for the top nigga replies. Any sort of reply that is dorky gets in the trash.
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>>34480217
>I don't get it
What is there not to get, they want sex, they pay you money to get sex, once they've paid and gotten the sex, transaction is done and there's no reason to stick around

>>34480257
You probably can find a simp given how pathetic men are these days

>>34480487
This too the word incel or ""femcel"" have lost all meaning. Involuntarily celibate people do not have sex with 100's of people.

Anyway how retarded do you have to be to take 5 years and 100's of bodies to realise some basic common sense shit of don't be a whore if you're tryna find something of enduring quality

Are Larps getting more advanced as people use AI to respond to posts and continue their larps

Post FetLife and Snapchat or ur fake and gay
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>people still take this bait in 26
amazin
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>>34480271
As a 30F hhkv, i can confirm that i have wilted and OP will be better off and find a nice man
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>>34480217
Holy fucking shit just stop. Stop with the ChatGPT-nigshit for 1 day. 4chan used to be a place that was actually somewhat enjoyable to browse and you ruin it with this horrid bait for teenagers. How fucking depraved you have to be to require vindication by people who browse for slightly less time than you FUCK ME IN THE ASS A GIRL!!!!!! A FEMALE ON 4CHINS!!!! You are Not a femmoid teaclod bot McKenna you are NOT a SLUT you are so beautiful loving and strong my digital kisses MWAH! MY CYBERDICK IS ALREADY OUT MOMMY PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE JUST SHOW IT INSIDE YOUR TECHNOCUNNY!?!?!?! Had to top the Indian shitpie off with a fucking moldy Family Guy jpeg. This troonism and the guy who makes hundreds of posts about being NEET his entire life are actually going to make me lose it. It's ALL so fucking TIRESOME. YOU FEEL LIKE YOU DON'T CONTRIBUTE TO SOCIETY THEN TAKE THE FUCKING HINT TIMMY. I KNOW YOU AREN'T TROLLING ABOUT THAT PART.
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Alright here's my FetLife and Snapchat
Fetlife: enlightened420
Snapchat: kellywhite420
My story isn't bait, it's real <3
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>>34481630
I don't even have either of those, can some other dude check em and poast whatever interesting artifacts may lay on there
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>>34481579
Are you fat
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>>34481630
lol
so fake
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>>34480217
probably a larp but i'll bite

i would say the worst thing you could possibly do is write yourself off
>its over
>things will never get better so theres no use in trying
>might as well keep destroying myself

these are just things people tell themselves because they dont want to do the hard work to better themselves.

you can make your life better. you dont know what the future holds.

stop doing drugs
stop having sex with strangers
stop destroying yourself

go to church
find new friends
leave the places that cause you to relapse

people will talk shit about on you but so fucking what.

everthing you want is on the other side of fear. dare to be better.

pic related is my pre-emptive response to your inevitable success
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>>34480217
Be honest and try to find an ex-manwhore bf with a similar bodycount
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Settle down with a bland looking incel STEM type that wears glasses. Tell him you slept with 3 dudes. Tell him you love him and have never felt such a connectiom before. When he goes on a work trip sleep with several different dudes a day including fat and old people, make sure to walk them by the ring camera so he sees. Watch as all the will to live drains from his soul and move on to your next victim. Ignore the newspapers for a couple months so you dont see his obituary. This is your fate and will happen regardless of whether you listen to me or not.
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Idk if ur still reading comments anymore. I hope u do. Im in a similar boat, 25f here. Only, i didnt have sex irl i just slutted online. Tbh, asking opinions from men on 4chan is not the way. Ive just been changing my habits and working on myself. Spiritual growth. Healing from trauma. Improve social skills. Learn how to regulate emotions so im not using addictions. All of the things that i was running from for a long time, bc i wasnt living in a safe enough home to be able to address it all. I got out of there and i have compassion for myself, and thats all i need to have rn, and thats the only person who needs to have it rn. Men arent authorised to have a say over our worth or experiences. They dont even understand women. Ur going to recalculate ur direction and God is gnna guode you. Personally i pray to The Mother lol.

i have a naturally bad aura atm, angry, sexual brainrot, insecure. I put in effort and ppl like me, but its impossible rn to make deeper relationships. I have to REDIRECT my whole life. U and i can have good quality of life regardless of what judgy ppl are saying. U will walk on the path that leads to the life a good person deserves to live. Whatever sadness or misdirection brought you to where you are, no its not the end of ur story its just a shitty chapter. Give it time and seek guidance from God and kindness. Not from men on 4chan or anyone who doesnt believe in u.
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Also this is similar. I see it as the same kind of recovery process. U'll be given less grace from humanity but not from ur bodys ability to recover itself. U'll get there.

>>34482132
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kxTyV_cBz7o
bessie smith - nobody knows you when you're down and out
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>>34480217
>>Why can't I find a boyfriend
Because the venues where you are looking are the kinds the men who only want a fling frequent. You chose the wrong audience and the wrong type of attention.
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>>34480217
Nah ur good just.. chill out.
Having a family is gay. Life is meaningless.. being a girl is actually so shitty. Peace
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>>34480217
Join a church.



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