Every single woman ive ever dated does this, and it feels so manipulative, but i dont really know how to combat it.> girl randomly gets an attitude> asks whats wrong> nothing.jpg> tries being normal and being happy around her> gets shut down or ignored every time> eventually gives up and just enjoys the silence> attitude gets worse> gives up even more and does my own thing> 5 minutes pass and she finally speaks> whyareyoumadatme.png> wym, you were the one being rude> no i wasnt!!!> gives 100% accurate retelling of events> either denies it, or breaks down> nothing was ever even wrong and now im having to coddle and reassureI wouldnt mind this as much if they didnt do this multiple times a week. Why??? Every girlfriend ive ever had pulls this shit
>>34482478It's an immature girl thing. They get moody and then if you ask what's wrong they don't wanna talk, what they actually want is some type of comfort from you that's non verbal like a hug or a cuddle or verbal reassurance or compliment. But they don't let you know that and because you had to ask they tell themselves it's evidence you weren't paying attention to her so they become pouty and their attitude picks up.If you continue asking, she gets moody.If you stop asking and leave her alone she gets moody. The way to proceed is just go get her something nice or whatever. Physical comfort like a hug. But at some point you gotta ask yourself if you're a man if you really wanna play parent to a grown woman. If the woman is over the age of 18 pulling this shit, it's not a good look for her personality wise.
>>34482489Thanks for the thoughtful reply. Sometimes its hard to be in a loving headspace in response to someone being rude to me. I'll try though. And yeah, the shitty thing is, none of my girlfriends have done this within the first few months of us being together. At that 5 month mark, it just appears out of nowhere.
