How do you stop being obsessed with thinking about someone?In this case someone you're into but who is unavailable or there is some other circumstance which makes it less than ideal for you to try to get together with them. But you still have had many moments with them that were romantic, or made you feel very good about yourself and desirable, more than with anyone else, and you're obsessed with recalling those moments because they make you feel good.>inb4 make yourself busy and focus on other thingsYes, but everyone has moments when they're not doing anything, chilling, or just bored. I cannot stop doing this during those moments.
>>34483188Try your damnedest to get that girl, irrespective of her busy busy or some gay shit.You got 1 (ONE) FUCKING CHANCE GO FUCKING GET HER, WHO GIVES A SHIT ABOUT FAILING WHEN THIS IS THAT IMPORTANT TO YOUR SPIRIT AAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!
>>34483188Love under will.
>>34483188Pursue them anyway to force a rejection. If you're still obsessed with them, cut them off completely.
>>34483270can't, I mentioned that circumstances make it essentially impossible. I'd have to upend my entire life and then some, and our lives are too different (this is not the actual case but think like a random nerdy man falling in love with an actress or something, it just wouldn't work). And of course there are also the outside circumstances, unavailability.>>34483302I should. I see the crush as part of a group a few times a year, and going no-contact would mean my already small social circle would go away because I wouldn't be seeing them either . So that makes it hard I admit.
>>34483327then shut the fuck up if you can't (you can but you're lying. Faggots like you piss me off. Like a table with too much cluttered junk. I want to wipe it all off in 1 swoop into a garbage basket. All clean. Sit the fuck down and use the table without balancing plates or homework books. Easy. BUT NOOOO I don't want to remove the junk from the table WAHHH)
>>34483511I want to stop having these thoughts though. But whenever I have a quiet, bored moment, they instantly come back. It's the thoughts I want to get rid of, I don't want to be together because I know already it's unrealistic.
>>34483270Seconding this, as delusional as it sounds.
>>34483527Listen, we are humans. We can't always control what our biology / minds decide to do.It's like you're a baby or something. Hit your head into a wall really hard so you forget, live with it, or go get that girl, faggot queer
>>34483188>How do you stop being obsessed with thinking about someone?It's simply habit, you got used to thinking about it and you need to create other thinking habits to take over, it won't happen instantly you need to wean yourself off it.
