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Really, what's the point of doing anything in life if you're not special in any way?

>not a pro athlete
>not a genius with business ideas
>not tall
>no good looks to even enjoy life locally
>just a manlet with shit genes from a poor family

How am I not supposed to end it? Nothing will get better.
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>>34483611

Those soccer players or basketball players are a tiny 0.1% and dedicate their whole life to a single discipline to be where they are at.
Do you want to do something to feel special? Learn to cook, seriously. Friends, family, and partner will praise your food 100% and you will not be competing with anyone.
Find joy In little things instead of aiming to that 0.1% of the population Anon, remember they start as kids too, it's not to late to learn a hobby like music, but try to not aim that far if you will not even have joy doing it.
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>>34483611
Try to be the best at living an average life.
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>>34483637
Knowing how to cook good enough to serve another person is also genetic skill.
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>>34483611
You could stop gauging human worth in the most shallow, selfish, materialistic way imaginable and start gauging it according to morals, principles and love shown towards others.
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>>34483866
So you believe that anything that requires dedication and practice is still genetic?
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>>34483611
I'm 6'3" and my life still sucks ass
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>>34483637
>Friends, family, and partner will praise your food 100% and you will not be competing with anyone.
As if I have that. Did you not read my post? You sound like a foid.
>music
Yeah, I'll just start recording in my apartment and annoy my neighbours while trying to do something the AI has replaced and record labels control. Great idea.
>>34483874
>start gauging it according to morals, principles and love shown towards others
Those aren't worth anything if everyone treats you like shit. The halo effect is real. You will just get stepped on and disrespected if you're a nice manlet.
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>>34483611
retarded post. learn how to take care of yourself and others, enjoy life: cook, lift, nature, friendship, reading, sex, hobbies. have a soul

>shit genes
i saw a young man today at work with a hereditary vasculopathy that will make him blind deaf and in kidney failure within his lifetime. entire families have been born without eyes (congenital anophthalmia). you don't have shit genes, you're able-bodied, you're just looking for an excuse not to try anything.
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>>34484969
>you're just looking for an excuse not to try anything.
I tried every self-improvement meme, you retard. How can you even assume I didn't try anything without knowing me? Disingenuous faggot.
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>>34485044
can kinda infer from your resentful attitude that youre not satisfied with whatever efforts you've made or claim to make. simple work in life is often satisfying
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>>34485057
>simple work in life is often satisfying
It's not for me. My youth is now gone.
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>>34483611
>what's the point of doing anything in life if you're not special in any way?
It might be fun
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>>34484951
>>34485044
>>34485097
Yeah, no hope for you it looks like - might as well kys today. No point in remaining worthless if you’re also going to be a baby about it
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>>34483611
Skills that make you stand out in a good way are acquired by repeatedly doing what you like and refining it to improve over time. No one is born with a predetermined fate or skill set. All of the skill is acquired through process and dedication - find yours and stick to it. You'll see the good parts to come, trust me.
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>>34483611
Truly, even shit you fucking hate immensely can be turned into a passion through becoming better at it. What's that? You suck at running? Maybe run some more fatty? Unless you're disabled, then try something else or get good at moving in a wheelchair. My point is you pick your skill and improve no matter how bad you are at it and then the results come afterwards with time and sticking to it.
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>>34484951
>Those aren't worth anything if everyone treats you like shit
If you believe that, then you deserve to be treated like shit. You aren't a good person until you actually care about being a good person for its own sake, rather than for what people will reward you with.
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>>34485417
You are delusional. I will stand up for myself instead of being a doormat like you. Fuck off with your non-advice.
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>>34485423
You mean you'll continue to be unpleasant, conceited and unlikeable. And people will continue to treat you as if you were unpleasant, conceited and unlikeable. It's almost as if effect follows cause, and you deserve the unhappy life you've built for yourself.
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>>34485427
>and you deserve the unhappy life you've built for yourself.
As if I had a choice for anything else. There was nothing happy about it before while growing up in poverty, you retard.
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>>34485436
You always have a choice. Poverty can't make a person unhappy, only a bad attitude towards poverty can. The happiest people in history all took vows of poverty. I grew up poor, hungry and surrounded by garbage. But rather than wallow in it and insist there was nothing I could do to change it, I worked on myself and my behavior. Folding your arms and deciding it can't be changed is why nothing has changed for you, and you have absolutely nobody and nothing to blame but yourself.



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