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I'm tired of this

>have my dating profile
>wait weeks for a girl to match with me
>finally girl dms me
>says I'm cute
>we talk for a few minutes
>she stops talking and never says anything ever again
>after a few fucking minutes

This is just over and over and over again with hundreds of girls now.

It's really making me view women in a very negative light.

What can I do to actually meet someone that is interested for real?
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Assuming you're in a western country, you need to get used to this. Women have a fuckton of options and are very sexually selective. The average man is well done in 2026 with respect to dating.

If you're on Hinge, set your profile to some third-world country of choice for automatic better options (it's not like shooting fish in a barrel, though. You're gonna wade through a lot of shit to find a decent, worthwhile woman even in a third world country. You can also do this on other apps like Badoo (good app for meeting thirdies) and Feeld. Tinder used to have an "international" options in config, but they recently removed it and now searching for women who speak other languages than your own is a paid option (fuck those shills.)

In order to set your location as somewhere other than your own, you have to remove localisation permissions for the apps in your phone and manually select a location in app. This doesn't work for some apps like Bumble and Tinder.

Happy hunting!
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>>34484198
So you're saying my only hope is date some chick from the Philippines or something? How am I supposed to get around the immigration thing?
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>>34484230
Do not date a philibeaner unless you are also an insane piece of shit. They will EAT YOU ALIVE.
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>>34484239
>They will EAT YOU ALIVE
kek
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>>34484230
I didn't say it's your only hope, but you'll be better ott than what you're doing now. You really should get on this sooner rather than later, because geomaxxing has been the meta for a while now and its efficacy is dwindling with each passing year.
>How am I supposed to get around the immigration thing?
Assuming you can convince a thirdie foid to get you to move to their country, marriage is the obvious path to immigration and citizenship. More likely than not, though, it will be you importing them.
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>>34484289
>its efficacy is dwindling with each passing year.
Why?
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>>34484152
Do you have any hobbies where you can meet people? Do you go to church? Do you have female colleagues at work? Do you have friends that have girlfriends? I'm not going to bullshit and say meeting people in real life is easy - especially nowadays - but I'd give it a shot. Dating apps are brutal for the vast majority of men.
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>>34484373
Because the world is globalised now with smartphones and social media being mainsteream and accessible. More and more thirdie foids are becoming like their western counterparts.
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>>34484152
triggered that ick, maybe you smell
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>>34484457
>More and more thirdie foids are becoming like their western counterparts.
Fuck man. This is so depressing. Soon there will be no good women left. It's all just going to be a bunch of worthless foids with over inflated egos :(
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>>34484152
>>says I'm cute
>>we talk for a few minutes
>>she stops talking and never says anything ever again
>>after a few fucking minutes
You should have asked them out after they said you're cute.
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>>34484152
Post your exchange. You may be saying something that’s giving them the wrong impression



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