>25 y/o semi NEET>neurodivergent with adhd (bottom 8th percentile scores on testing btw), aspergers thats mild enough that it can go unnoticed but poses enough of an issue that it prevents me from fully integrating myself into society>Have a clerical/data entry job thanks to my mom, as i work with her >She considers it more of a joke than a job because I only happen to have it thanks to her and because I don't do much, which is true but I still get things done>Most of the little money I make is so that I can help pay rent, still considers me a leech at the end of the day>nags me almost every day because i don't do enough, will literally just be existing and she tells me that i have ruined her life and that she wants to rid herself of me>Don't want to be a bum for the rest of my life, tell her I would like to study something sociology related, refuses to help pay for college as she thinks I won't stick to it, because "i need to accept my limitations" and that i will never do anything with my life, father is deadbeat that won't help with it either>Would rather send me to a boarding school where they can "teach me how to live like an adult" instead of help with college so that I can get the fuck out of here and do something with my shit lifeAny suggestions? I just want to get the fuck out of here and do something with my life, I'm tired of the belittling and nagging.
Also forgot to mention I have some weird form of dyscalculia. IQ is tested as nothing special (108) but I at least have a 122 Verbal going for me. I just got the medication I needed for my ADHD and I feel its working really well.
required:get cerrification to teach english abroad like TEFL or whatever the fuck and go to another country (especially where white native english speakers have high value, like from rich racist chinese parents)optional:take out a loan for as much as possible and choose a country that doesn't have a treaty with america like china or smth so you'll have a massive head start (you can't come back if you do this, but if you never want to see your parents again that's a good thing)bonus:marry an asian qt while in china
>>34484337>You can't come back if you do thisDo you mean I wouldn't be able to return to the US if I chose a country that didn't have a treaty with it?
>>34484368no I mean take out the loan with no intention of ever paying it back. It's called fraud nigga
bonus: get your parents to cosign the loan so it becomes their problem when you fuck off to china and never pay it back. Then they kill themselves from the financial pressure haha
>>34484337naive OP getting terrible advice>>34484314you're young and inexperienced and are just taking everything your mother says at face value. do what you want. get another job that u like and save money and move out. or study. you have free will much like everyone does, but it's evident from your identification with these labels like neurodivergency / neet / adhd that you submit to your self imposed limitations. You might have to take risks and do things that you think might be a good idea, or that you might be inclined to do
>>34484314Regardless of who your boss is, you now have actual experience in clerical/data entry work. Use that to get a job someplace else, save your money and pay your own way to community college
>>34484314>adhd>aspergers
>>34484314>>34484599>You might have to take risks and do things that you think might be a good idea, or that you might be inclined to donot op but it unfortunately really is the only way as much as it pains anyone.i myself (24 neet about to turn 25) have also been struggling with these self imposed restrictions. thankfully, i've been making some changes in the last few monhts. it all started when my sister recommended me going to some kind of youth group in my town. it's helped a lot with socializing (which i struggle a lot with) and they also provide me with some guidance with education and job hunting (they even have their own job board). i would suggest looking for one of these in your area if not for the sake of networking alone anyways.
