What is a sneaky way I can let my step sister know I'm interested in her romantically where things won't be too weird if she doesn't feel the same? We didn't grow up together, I didn't meet her until I was 15, so we aren't like family-family. I've had romantic feelings for her since I met her, but was never sure if she felt the same, she has always been hard to read.It always felt like there was sexual tension between us, but I wasn't sure if I was just imagining it or not. If I just imagined it and tried to kiss her, our family dynamic will be messed up forever after that. Is there a way I can let her know I feel romantically interested in her where there's enough deniability that the relationship won't be nuked if she doesn't feel the same? We are both single now and I feel like if I don;t go for it now it will never happen.
>>34484381I'm an autistic loser but somehow women like talking to me. the longer they talk to me the more sexual interest they develop. so maybe try talking to her. I dunno Im sorry I cant help. Im not very good with women, just the ones that want to talk to me.
>>34484406Have talked to her for a decade, but am usually careful to keep things nonsexual. A few times I have made sex jokes, and when I did I'd feel her leaning into it rather than away from it. And other little things like the other day we shared a drink and I could "feel" her liking it when I would drink from her cup, putting my lips where hers just were. She handed the cup back to me more than was necessary, and would watch me as I drank. But I could just be imagining everything. It's very frustrating not knowing for sure.
>>34484381In these scenarios always let the female make the first move lest they claim you tried to SA her Remain cordial, don’t fuck this up it will spell a disaster for you as your dad may disown you to keep his new wife and daughter calmStop watching porn if you areForget the sexual tension (you may be imagining it based on your oneitis), how is your relationship with her, does she talk with you, do you talk with her, do you do activities together
>>34484473Yeah we talk a lot. She laughs more with me than with her ex boyfriend or with anyone else in our families. When we sit together drinking and laughing during the holidays I get a very strong work-wife vibe from her. All my instincts are screaming at me to kiss her when she's near me, but if I read everything wrong it would be such a disaster. So I'd like to just say something to her that lets her know I feel the same as she does, but could be interpreted innocently if she doesn't actually feel that way. She has said a few things that I suspected was her doing exactly that, like mentioning the time she walked in on me in the bathroom. She said I was brushing my teeth. We both know I was naked with a half chub getting out of the show, why even mention it otherwise, oh the time you caught me brushing my teeth, who cares, why even mention that otherwise. And then a year or so ago I was talking about how Kanye West went on some show and complained Kim Kardashian was "dating a white guy with a 10 inch dick". Then ten minutes after that, she made a joke about TSA stopping me because the scanner was confused by MY 10 inch dick. Was totally out of the blue, we had not been talking about the Kanye West thing for a long time by then, was like she was just sitting there thinking about big dick and me the whole time. I'm not 10 inches, but I think we were so young when she saw me naked that I have "dad dick" in her memory, she remembers me being huge or something.
>>34484381>what is a sneaky way-Find an excuse to hang out with her one on one. Go buy some weed and ask if she wants to sneak out to smoke. If you can't buy weed, get some booze - ask if she wants to drink. If she says, "no," then leave it at that. Don't be a creep, either. I'm not saying, "get her fucked up," but usually drinking/smoking/doing something you aren't supposed to do spontaneously is the easiest way to hang out with someone without raising suspicion about your motives. If you're not comfortable with that, you'll need to find another way to hang out with her without interference from friends / family. Once the two of you are together - just have fun. Talk, gossip, banter, etc. Don't directly confess your feelings or ask how she feels about you - that would intimidate her and most likely turn her off. Keep things light.>If I just imagined it and tried to kiss her-Don't imagine kissing her. Don't imagine fucking her. Don't imagine any sort of sexual contact with this girl. You're setting yourself up for failure mentally. Make peace with the (highly likely) possibility that she has no feelings for you, then enter the interaction with a sense of "I don't care if this doesn't go my way, I'm just going to enjoy myself." If you're worried about a girl's approval, you'll be awkward, nervous, etc. Your body language will betray you. Conversely, not caring whether she reciprocates attraction will - funny enough - make you more attractive. It's easier said than done, but it's your only option if you want to improve your odds.>was never sure if she felt the same, she has always been hard to readNo shit dude, your parents are together. It doesn't matter that you two aren't blood-related, it's still seen as taboo. Women are extremely averse to engaging in acts that will lead to social ostracization. It's hardwired into their DNA. The odds aren't in your favor, but don't let it stop you from trying.
>>34484581We do drink together, but yeah there usually is family around. I think you are right about getting her alone, both of us drunk and happy together will hit different when we are alone somewhere. If she's wanting to be kissed I'll probably be able to tell from her eye contact and body language if it's just the two of us.
>>34484381"Hi. Wanna fuck?"Either way, it saves time.
Everyone is into degen stepfamily stuff these days, there’s a very high likelihood she would be dtf
>>34484381don't try to fuck your stepsister. she's probably not interested. also that would fuck up your entire family dynamic.
