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So recently I sold my home due to some financial constraints that were making it a huge liability, and I'm now renting somewhere peaceful and quiet and pretty stable, but I seem to have gotten more shy or something.

I have two jobs, one of which is sales and the other is like gig food delivery and my sales calls have been going to voicemail a lot when I tried to reach the business owners and I get rejected a lot, as I did before but it feels like something is off or lacking now.

Is there some magical connection between owning a home even if it is a piece of shit and success in social and business life? Or is this something I should be able to work through on my own merits?

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protestant brain rot. guys live with their mother until 37 in Sicily and every one is happier for it. "you have to move out at 18 and have a starter house by 28" is propaganda. never feel bad that you are not paying interest to mr shekelstein
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>>34484608

It was a variable rate, interest only HELOC and I basically broke even considering the cost of full renovation. I'm paying now what it would cost to hold the home with a guy renting my other bedroom and a guy renting in the living room. So on paper I made out pretty well. The issue is psychological I guess. I'm in my early 30s so I'm gonna try to get something smaller and cheaper with less maintenance next time.
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It's being established and independent that gave you confidence. You regressed and now need roommates to help you with bills.
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>>34484678

It's the same with or without the home. I just removed the risk of foreclosure with very little savings and tripled my liquid funds.
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What I mean is, I would need roommates either way.
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Being financially stable will bring in more confidence than being housepoor.



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