He will be 30 this year. He refuses to work anything that's more than 3 days a week, and even then he never actually goes in or he'll call in sick. So on average he works like 2 days a fortnight.He doesn't pay any rent, he effectively leaches off my mom to pay for everything for him. He always borrows money that he can't and won't payback. His credit card is 100's negative. He owes my mom and my dad, he owe's me 100's from nearly 3 years ago.He can't afford to moveout because he's in debt to everyone he knows. He has no money and the second he gets paid he spends it all on surplus shit he doesn't need.I never get any privacy because he is always home and never at work. And when he is at work (very rarely) his girlfriend is here doing nothing at all, rent free of course. I never get the chance to have the house free or have anyone over and it's fucking infuriating.He doesn't clean up after himself. The kitchen is always a mess because he doesn't clean after using it. He doesn't even help out around the house, he doesn't do the bins, go shopping or do the washing or anything.If you mention any of this to him he immediately starts screaming and shouting like a fucking man-child. And he doesn't stop until you cannot take it anymore. He's literally made my mom throw up from shouting in her face nonstop before.What do I do? He's leaching off my mom and financially draining her because he's a lazy fuck who refuses to work. She's in her 60's and looking to retire soon and he's still living like he's 18/19. She's too nice (gullible) to kick him out. Because my parent's are separated there's been no dominant male figure in the house to keep him in line so he's been allowed to just do whatever the fuck he wants for the last decade.
>>34485944You or your mom needs to talk to your dad and ask him to intervene. Your brother needs his ass figuratively kicked by his dad. Your brother is basically floundering without a strong male in the house and refuses to become that himself. You need to talk to your dad about this. It's time. Otherwise your brother is fucked and make sure to frame it that way to your dad so he takes it seriously.
>>34485944Meticulously drug him with the strongest antidepressant that you can put your hands on. Or he gets better or he dies, so it's a win win situation.
>>34485944Unironically leave and let them die. It's not your job to be their therapist or take care of them. You can try but it's gonna take years, if that is they even want to change which it sounds like they have a good nest and people to enable them so that's not gonna happen unless they get a super swift kick in the balls non stop.
>>34486197>theyrope, faggot
