I'm engaged to an uncircumcised guy. We wanted to save sex for marriage, but since we got engaged we went ahead to try out oral stuff and tried and ran into some trouble.I don't understand the foreskin, or how to treat it. It's just in the way, so how do I do stuff to his dick that he'll like if I can't like peel it back? And when I try to peel it back to see the head, he acts like it hurts.Can someone give me a simple run down on how to get him off? He's really opposed to getting circumcised so I'm trying to understand how to handle his dick as it is.
>>34486009Ask him to peel back the foreskin? If it's hurting he needs to see a doctor. It could get infected from what I understand.
>>34486021He's said "that's as far back as it goes" when I could only just barely see the head of his dick under it. He says it "works" and that it never gave him trouble masturbating but I don't understand how to use it. I sucked his dick for 45 continuous minutes last night trying to get him to cum and he got close multiple times but never finished.
>>34486040Holy jaw pain just because it's not giving him trouble doesn't mean it's okay. is he not getting clean under there??
>>34486040this fella got phimosis and a life time buildup of smegma under there
>>34486062He's clean, his foreskin just won't go back further it seems like.>>34486094Idk what phimosis is, but he was pretty clear he doesn't want to take it to a doctor. Is there a way to treat that at home?
>>34486110>Idk what phimosisgoogle/bing it then. idk im not a heckin doctor either
Stop bumping your creative writing and fuck off
>>34486040>He's said "that's as far back as it goes" when I could only just barely see the head of his dick under it.As others have said, it sounds like he might have phimosis. The foreskin is supposed to retract far enough back that it fits behind the lower edge of the head; and if you have an erection, when you retract it to that point, it should stay there without you having to hold it back. A normal, uncircumcised penis with the foreskin rolled back looks quite similar to a circumcised penis. If you can only expose the tip of the head because the foreskin is too tight to retract, that's not normal, and "phimosis" is the medical term for that. It's worth treating, partly because it makes sex more fun, but mostly because if the foreskin won't retract, you can't wash the head properly. As for what you do with the foreskin during oral sex: you enjoy it. I have an usually long foreskin absolutely *loves* playing with it with her tongue. I enjoy it too, it's very sensitive! But in terms of making the guy come - yeah, you're probably going to have to get the phimosis looked at; that or make him come by hand every time.
>>34486110>Is there a way to treat that at home?Not really. The standard first-line treatment is to stretch the skin many times a day while using steroid cream on it. You can Google the stretching exercises, but the cream will require a prescription. This is not a quick process: it takes months, or even a couple of years sometimes. There are also surgical options; these stop well short of full circumcision, but are still a bit scary to think about! A common option is to make a narrow slit along the top of the foreskin (a "dorsal slit"); but there are other possibilities.Tell your fiancé to stop being a pussy and go to his doctor.
>>34486110>He's cleanUnder the foreskin it's probably quite nasty.
>>34486009You are a dumb american cunt and are responsible for mutilating my genitals. YOU get circumcised first. FUCK UP YOUR GENITALS FIRST and then see how it feels. I hope he dumps you and you remain unloved
>>34486251It depends. I could pull my it back as a kid but pulled it back way too far once and got some scarring that stopped me from going beyond the urethra. I carried on with a tight foreskin until I was 19, which was when I realized you should pull it back. I was worried about the smegma build up, but even after years of masturbation there was nothing. I only got it once I could get behind the corona. I assume the skin being in contact with the head 24/7 prevents it.
>>34486009>UncircumcisedUtterly disgusting and barbaric. Bet it tastes of Piss. You should suggest him to get a cut
>>34486248This, his poor foreskin hurting his cock.
