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>be me
>have a massive crush on a friend, too scared to ask her out
>shes dated meb and women in the past, so I think I have a chance
>get talking with her
>late nights texting
>best friends
>some idiot screws everything up
>she says she now hates all men and would never like one again
>says love disgusts her
>one day, we sit together
>sitting very close, looking at a paper on her lap, savoring the proximity
>one of her friends looks at us and whispers to my crush, something about us
>crush immediately scoots 2 feet away and shouts that she'd rather kill herself and laughs it off with her friend
>I pretend not to notice, but die inside
>over time, she says she sees me as too innocent and a baby
>crush gets a girlfriend
>I stay a friend, and support her
>deep down i wonder what would've happened if i told her how I felt before this
>I hate myself

Why cant I stop thinking about her?
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>>34488416
>I stay a friend
>i wonder what would've happened if i told her how I felt
>Why cant I stop thinking about her?
You're not supposed to be friends with women you're attracted to. You're supposed to shoot your shot and skedaddle. Literally just start acting like she doesn't exist, and you'll forget about her in a couple of weeks.
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>she says she sees me as too innocent and a baby
>crush gets a girlfriend
>I stay a friend, and support her
How is she wrong about you? Stop orbiting.

>deep down i wonder what would've happened if i told her how I felt before this
You'd get rejected the way you are
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>>34488416
I have a friend exactly like you, and his crush thing has been going on for 15 years already kek. Mate, just try to become more than friends and if that doesn’t work just LEAVE, forget her.
My friend made the mistake of being too attached and sticking around even after rejection, and now he endures watching her going out with women and men while still imagining he has a chance if he sticks around for longer. I honestly don’t know whats going on inside his head anymore, he might have developed some kind of emotional codependency and cuck fetish because otherwise I don’t know how someone would endure the humiliation.
Don’t end up like this anon, just shoot your shot and leave if it doesn’t work out. If she hits you with the “you’ve been my friend only to get in my pants” don’t get shaken, thats the truth, and she never saw you as a man, she doesn’t deserve you anyway.
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Women are Chadsexual.



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