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Anonymous

I don't know what to do 05/02/26(Sat)05:55:03 No.34488779

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I don't know what to do Anonymous 05/02/26(Sat)05:55:03 No.34488779 Archived

I'm in a great relationship, nearly 2 years in and, even though we have highs and lows, we are doing great.
One of her friend had her birthday some days ago and my gf stayed with her for 2 nights after the party. They slept together and everything.
Normally it wouldn't bother me, but my girlfriend is constantly saying how she hates men and loves women, she is always saying that if we broke up, she would go with a girl, she always jokes about being in a relationship with pretty much all of her friends. But what trigger me so much is that she keeps saying that yeah, she could fall in love with that one friend, but it would probably only be a sex friend. And she just stayed 2 night with her.
Obviously, I have total trust in her, and she tells me that nothing happened but I'm still jealous and all...

Just to clarify things, I cheated on her twice (I sent some message to ask for nude at two of my friends on some horny night... I'm not glad that I did, it's been 1 year, and my gf tells me that she forgave me (even though, in any argument she would use that fact)), I'm not allowed to have any girl sleeping at my house (one day, with a friend, I went to a concert and after that she needed to sleep at my home. She slept in my bedroom while I slept on the couch, at a different floor level... And my gf still blocked me for some days because she was pissed). And I can't even talk with her about all that because I feel guilty of asking her that kinds of things...

Anonymous
05/02/26(Sat)05:58:44 No.34488783

Anonymous 05/02/26(Sat)05:58:44 No.34488783

>>34488779
She deserves her wig split for those remarks. I'd save all the nudes of her for sending them to her family/town/workplace at a strategic time.

Anonymous
05/02/26(Sat)06:00:05 No.34488784

Anonymous 05/02/26(Sat)06:00:05 No.34488784

I don't want to ruin her life, I love her...

Anonymous
05/02/26(Sat)06:05:06 No.34488793

Anonymous 05/02/26(Sat)06:05:06 No.34488793

>>34488779

Bro you've cheated on her and crossed the boundaries she's set up to help get over that issue. Imagine how she felt when you did those things, its a sliver of the jealousy you are feeling now.

If she can handle those feelings and move past them, its now your turn to see if you can manage yours. If you can't, get out and leave this for your sake and hers.

Anonymous
05/02/26(Sat)06:15:57 No.34488800

Anonymous 05/02/26(Sat)06:15:57 No.34488800

Yeah, I need to go over this, and I want... But deep in I can't, and I was wondering how can I ? Idk how to, I don't want to blame her or make her change her behaviour... I just want to get rid of my jealousy and all that negative feelings I got... It's bad for the two of us