Am I a bad husband for not wanting to pay for private school for my wife's daughter from a previous marriage? She's not my child, and I have no obligation, besides the kid has a Dad, he should pay for it.This year, I sent my son to a private boarding school. He's been there for a few months now, and he’s always sending pictures, video clips, and telling stories about it. Now my wife's daughter suddenly wants to attend the same school, and my wife expects ME to pay for it.The problem is, I can barely afford my own son's tuition, let alone hers. Also, before we got married, we agreed to keep our finances separate, with a clear prenup and separate assets. I don't have any obligation to pay for her daughter's education, especially since she's almost an adult. She's 15, which is too old to be throwing tantrums over something like this. My son is the same age as her and he already behaves like an adult.Should I just ignore it until my wife drops the issue? I don't want to waste money on someone else kid, not my fault she reproduced with a tall loser.
>>34488976She should pay for it. But of course be warned the daughter might resent you, kids never like it when a sibling (or half-sibling) gets a big handout which they are denied.
>>34488976lmao not your kid, not your financial obligation. The dad can take care of it, and if not, public school it is.Also lmao fucking cuck.
>>34488976Maybe you can make a deal with your stepdaughter... if you know what I mean.
>>34488976You married and created a blended family. The daughter is your responsibility. If you wanted a female roommate with a child you never should have married.If I were advising your wife and you pulled this shit I'd tell her to blow that prenup up and it can be done. No judge looks favorably on a controlling bastard.
>>34488976>Am I a bad husband for not wanting to pay for private school for my wife's daughter from a previous marriage?Yes. Very bad indeed.
>>34488976>I have no obligation,You are her mother's husband, and the breadwinner in her family. Of course you have an obligation.
I rather be alone than take care of any bastard children. Are people really this retarded nowadays? How can you marry someone knowing there's a financial liability right under your nose. kek
Yeah you're a terrible person. That girl did nothing to you, you're cheap and have fragile masculinity.If you don't pay for it I think you are doing the single most effective thing to ruin your marriage lol
>>34488976My (step)Dad went through hell and high water to provide for us and make us feel loved, I honor him every way I can strive to make him proud and work to repay his kindness every day. Don't expect that kind of treatment from your stepdaughter.
>>34488976It will save you money in the long run. Public school is for loser NPCs. Your inaction is an assault on society.
>>34488976No, it's her kid she can pay for ityou agreed to keep finances separate. That boundary was set already. Why would you break it now especially when it's infeasible. Pay nothing, or contribute what you feel like.
>>34489053shut up you whore. OP don’t listen to these whores you don’t have any obligations to pay for another bastard
>>34489032>>34489033why is this place now infested by bitter foids? You obviously shouldn’t pay for private school (a luxury). Especially since you agreed upon separating finances. It’s not like we are talking about some necessity. Those whores should shut the fuck up. If you pay you will money that you could use for your son and yourself and might risk your wife using you in the long run. Keep establishing your boundaries and if she doesn’t want to respect those leave
>>34488976why did you marry someone if you wanted to keep your finances separate? you could literally just live together and call her your wife and no one would be the wiser, now you have a massive legal liability and you still have to pay your own way
>>34491297Females will mercilessly gentrify and colonize everything we hold dear until we have nothing left but to become their sex slaves. I walked by two girls going off at each other "chud! chud! chud! chud!" and never have I so much wanted to stick my thumbs into someone's eye sockets and crack her head open like an egg.
>>34488976Encourage the stepdaughter and your wife to speak to her birth father about attending private school, and be candid about both the cost and your expectation of him to contribute to his daughter's tuition. Explain that this is something he should help with. There may be a clause in your wife's divorce terms that stipulate that her ex is to pay a certain amount of tuitions. If he refuses, then he can be the one to express that to his daughter and ex-wife and it won't be your responsibility to decline. If he does agree, then he and your wife can discuss the tuition costs together. This is an situation where your wife and her ex-husband are expected to coparent. It's not that you are being an asshole, its moreso that a situation like this has to be carefully considered. Tuition is expensive, and has to mean something more than curing your stepdaughter's FOMO.
>>34488976>Am I a bad husband for not wanting to pay for private school for my wife's daughter from a previous marriage?No, not your kid, not your problem.>my wife expects ME to pay for it.Tell her that you won't and that her father should do it.FUCK DUDE. I bet you were warned about this shit before marrying her. Why would you marry a roastie?>we agreed to keep our finances separate, with a clear prenup and separate assetsAs you should. Don't change that now. The demands will only increase, and if you start to do it now, it could even mess up the prenup>Should I just ignore it until my wife drops the issue?Ignoring it won't solve the problem. But it's better than paying for her shit.>I don't want to waste money on someone else kidAs you should. She doesn't have one drop of your blood, even paying for a 3rd degree cousin would be more understandable than that...
>>34488984>>34489005>>34489032>>34489033>>34489053>>34489270Nobody will ever love you. You will be forever an used up hole and the community whore. Thank you for your time.
>>34488976I'd say it depends on some factors.Are you in good terms with your wife and her daughter? Is she a good kid? Does she respect you? Is your wife and her ex-husband incapable of paying for it? That sort of thing.If she is kind and well behaved kid and all, I think I'd agree to help pay for it, as long as everyone cashed in to help: your wife, you, and her ex-husband (and they should handle most of the tuition, you'd just help a bit). I think that would be the most fair thing to do, given the situation.
>>34495649You wish, fag.
>>34495775>You wish, fag.I don't, it's the fruit of your actions.
>>34491297>why is this place now infested by bitter foids?I'm a guy, but believe that I'm a woman if it helps you sleep at night.>>34495343You too.
>>34495649>Nobody will ever love you. You will be forever an used up hole and the community whore. Thank you for your time.I'm a happily married XY man, thank you.
>>34496648>I'm a happily married XY man, thank you.You're a cuck
>>34488976Somebody has to breed and raise the next generation of goyim cattle. Most normies will happily step up to the plate and wage their life away for a chance to reproduce. I'm just glad that's not me.
