There are two hot girls at my gym that are very talkative and talk to a whole lot of people, I am too autistic to approach or talk to anyone at the gym and I usually just work out with headphones on. Seems possible I could befriend them and a bunch of other people, but I simply dont know how to engage anybody.Any advice on how to engage with people without looking weird? I am a good looking young guy, early 20s, which is why I actually do think I have a chance since I do know that at least when it comes to my face I am way better looking than a lot of guys there, but I can come off as very intense. I know I should take off my headphones if I want talk to anybody, but I find it hard to break the ice with anybody without the context of alcohol. I need to be super drunk in a club to gain the confidence to pull women, but women do show interest in me so that you know I am not delusional
>>34489442>I am too autistic to approach or talk to anyone at the gymWell, guess you found the answer: you'll never talk to those women.
stop making shit threads
>>34489442You already no the answer. There is no magic phrase we can give you that will make them drop to their knees and suck your cock.Ditch the headphones or just wear one ear bud. Then, look for small openings to make conversation. Don't think it's going to be some magic first conversation. Your goal is to slightly break the ice over a series of sessions.Then, one day you have a slightly longer interaction and you use it to say "my name is FAGGOT by the way, what's yours?"Then walk away again.Then the next time you see her you say "Hi SLUTSNAME, how's the work out going today?"You slowly build the interactions and before you know it you are balls deep in her ass while her friend licks your scrotum.
>>34489442Ask them a question about a lift, for advice. Ask questions more than you talk about yourself. I ran a bar for a years little bro. Listen to me here over these fucking spergs. Once you learn about yhem you can be more creative with the conversation. People like jokes and humor, so give them a little shit sometimes. She says she likes Duke. Make a joke about Duke. She's a girl though so keep it PG. Women want to feel small and helpful. Like you want to feel big and useful. Don't move to fast, ie getting a number. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, so make her like you enough to want YOUR number. Don't be obsessed with one over the other. In fact sometimes paying the other one more attention can work. I don't recommend playing the "I'm a bipolar asshole" red pill philosophy. You'll attract women that like bipolar assholes. Keep your head and your eyes up. If you have to break eye contact look UP when you do it. Shows confidence. Youre all welcome. KING OF THE ARA
>>34489442>I need to be super drunk in a club to gain the confidence to pull womenbro that's because you are talking to women who are also drunk and you are at the "go to get laid" place aka the club. talking to girls in the daytime gym is different. 95% of girls don't go to the gym to get hit on. so you are going to have to treat this situation much different than that. treat them like human beings and just say something real to them. if you try to pull some fake ass rizz line like "hey im mike who are you?" or "damn that workout looks intense haha", they are immediately going to put walls up. unless you are making them wet as fuck based purely on your face and body. you are going to have to be real with them, say "hey I know this is random but you seem really outgoing and I just wanted to say hi". it's real because you're being honest with her in a socially acceptable way. this will also be much better than "yOu ArE sO Hot Can I HaVe uR numBEr??"
