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>>34489450
>I'm waiting for the bus
>Is it over?
Yes. Try not to be a loser who can't even drive if you want to score.

>>34489460
>want to score
Animal mentality

>>34489460
I'm not an americar though.

Actually it's a good thing. Shows her you are also in demand. It's just a first date, you can't be expected to delete your app yet. Besides, she got 10 times more notifications from her dating app while on the date with you. You just didn't see them.
She dressed up for your date, so she thought she looked cute and added a pic of her fit to her photos.

How does she feel about you? You are in the "maybe" pile right now. So you have a chance. Now it is your turn to see if you can secure the 2nd date. Be confident, be cool, wait a little bit then txt her that you enjoyed seeing her and invite her to another date and see if she responds favorably. Don't be a simp in the txt and ask her to make any decisions about the date except yes or no. Be direct, confident and invite her to something fun.
Then on the 2nd date, kiss her.

>>34489514
thanks.

>>34489514
I both love and hate this advice, because no one is the same, and I'm sadly not in this box, so OP >>34489450 I'm going to give you advice from my side of things:
If you are like me - a man who loves a lot, a man who wants to get off the apps and have just one girl, then act that way. Ask for the next date during the date. Or right after the date. Or right now!! I'm trying to say that there are no rules. You are who you are. If she likes you, she'll like you now as well as later. I don't believe in waiting, it makes me feel bad and anxious. I can't handle it. I feel like if a girl is good and we get along - I want to continue with HER. Not shop around for more.
I'm not saying your girl is doing something wrong by shopping, I'm not saying you're doing anything wrong either, I'm just telling you to consider your own feelings as well - if you want stability and assurance then ask for a second date literally as soon as you feel it. There are no rules, you don't have to wait for anything or anyone, if you feel it - say it. That's how I personally work, that's how I've always worked. I love fast and I love hard, and if that's the kind of person you are too - then act on it. There are no rules.
Some of those people that advocate for you to be aloof and wait - are pandering. Some people CAN really be okay with that (mainly avoidant attachment style males who KNOW that they have more options)
But for niggas like me that attach quick and attach deep for the right person - I'm not willing to wait. And I'm letting you know that you shouldn't too if you're like me.

I'll explain one more thing:
Who you present yourself as, is who you attract, and it's the precedence that you set. And that precedence won't change, so all those guys who pander to women by waiting and giving her her "space" are just enabling a shopping lifestyle, and eventually they'll get a girl who is not compatible with their attachment style or unserious - unless they TRULY are avoidant themselves