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Where do normies even go to meet people and girls?

I lost my 20s to bad health and managed to regain it at 34.

I wanna have a girlfriend and friends by the time I graduate but people in class are always in a hurry.
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>>34489829

First find a hobby YOU are interested in, then try to look an area to share such hobby. The idea to socialize around a hobby you are interested in is to not get unmotivated if people don't reciprocate at first, and also to have stuff in common to talk about.

>Cooking class

I will never get tired of recommending this, learn a skill, socialize, and even if you don't meet anyone interesting there you still have the knowledge

>I already know how to cook

Doesn't matter, new recipes are never bad and you might make friends helping them if they need to.
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>>34489829
They go outside and if they are attractive then girls will smile and talk to you anywhere
Retard
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>>34489858
IM GONNA HOBBYMAXXXXX AND BAG A DISGUSTING SLAMPIG!!!
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>>34489858
Jews are trying to segregate hobby areas.
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>>34489829
The truth is there is nowhere to meet people in the current year. There are very few single women walking on the streets anymore, they all drive but the main problem is most women are in relationships already starting with high school and college. They will tell you to go to bars and pubs but it doesn't seem to work anymore, in the past sure maybe but not anymore.

Then they tell you hobbies, to get hobbies and sign up for shit, but most women don't have hobbies (their hobby is socializing over the internet and in real life) not to mention the countless other guys that get into hobbies to meet women.
If you don't meet a girl in high school or college it's over in 2026, there is nowhere to meet women anymore, unless you cold approach in places where young women hang out.
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>>34492220
So going back to HS/College is the only option.
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Why do zoomies always appear unaware that special places exist where it’s normal to talk to strangers and alcohol is served to lower everyone’s inhibitions and make it easy to meet people. It’s called a bar bro
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>>34493174
I dont drink, Millennialbro.
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>>34493242
You need to start drinking
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>>34493242
You can order non alcoholic
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>>34493264
Why
>>34493271
Okay but then I'd look like a pussy
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>>34493313
Because it will get you out of your shell and cure whatever social anxiety or OCD loner tendencies that are socially isolating you so much. And going to bars is just the easiest way to make friends after you’re out of school by far
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>>34493174
>>34493347
I go to bars alone a lot, it definitely did help me get over my social anxiety. Now I can strike up a convo to just about anyone. my strategy is to go watch a game, make some friends early on so I’m in a social mood, then try talking to women later on. Never had any luck though, it’s rare that any women seem interested and a lot of guys are very standoffish when I try to make conversation.
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>>34489829
If you wanna have a plaything, try the bar or the clubs. if you want to have a wife, try church or the library.
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>>34493721
Based
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>>34489829
https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32

It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.
But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.

Whether you're 34 or 44 it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.



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