I recently turned 18 last month, I graduate high school later this year. I have never had a gf, never been invited to a party, am still a virgin, have had no real friend group throughout high school, made no real memories during my teen years. Looking on social media, I see all the people I used to be friends with going to parties, drinking, doing fun stuff, hanging out with their gfs. Even the dude who was my FIRST FRIEND EVER who I have known SINCE I WAS 5 got a GF before me. I am also 5'5", autistic, and started balding at 16.
>I am also 5'5", autistic, and started balding at 16.Oh my fucking God bahahahahaJust join incels.is bro. Its over.
>>34490125You're 18, chill out. You're not old at all, you're young as shit. I know that when I was 18 I thought to myself how old I felt and how I thought I knew it all and I thought I had life figured all out and how everything was all pessimistic. Bullshit, absolute bullshit. I'm twice your age, you have no clue about a lot of things yet OP. I even know that when you read this you will not be altered by what is said. None of this is going to make sense to you because you ain't my age. All you have is your experience and you've only got your young experience. So I forgive you if you think I am talking nonsense or you think you may know better. All I gotta say is, do not make the mistake I did at 18. Do not think you know how your life will turn out, please for the love of God presume you know nothing. If you can do that, you will go further than I did. Because if you fall into the shitty mindset of thinking "it's so over" at age 18, you will remain that way for decades. Please, please, please do the one thing teens never do, listen to your elders. When they tell you to stop caring and just give yourself a fucking break and to stop worrying about girls and parties and all that shit, listen to them and assume they are telling you truth. Stop worrying about this shit. Just find what you already enjoy and enjoy it. Whether that's video games or board games or writing or whatever it is you do to kill time, go and enjoy it and make no apology for it. Enjoy it and let yourself enjoy what you have and who you are today without comparing yourself to others. You are not wasting yourself if you can't get parties or pussy, don't worry about that shit. Focus on your own joys and your own skills and develop those. Build your own path
>>34490143Its absolutely clear he will have a shit time in his 20s because he is autistic and unattractive. stop bullshitting him. You can predict that.Also old people are extremely out of touch and they don't care. They were forced into marriage. They didn't grow up with as much woke, anti male poison. Their women didn't have social media. They weren't as cold and aloof. They weren't allowed to be.
>>34490160Lowkey just thinking of roping now and getting it over with. I gotta stay alive for GTA 6 but after that I really don't think i have anything worth living for. Unlike 99% of other normies my age I have absolutely nothing to look forward to in the future. no parties, no hookups, no career, no love or marriage. my future is utterly empty and barren, and i dread it every day.
>>34490179Imagine looking forward to a shitty, pozzed game about attractive thugs who everyone worships, while they moralise and judge you to death because you're ugly. Fucking brutal.I would suggest seeing a decent hooker and just having fun
>>34490160>Its absolutely clear he will have a shit time in his 20s because he is autistic and unattractive.Bullshit. My brother is both of those things and he got more pussy than a pimp. >Also old people are extremely out of touch and they don't care. They were forced into marriage. They didn't grow up with as much woke, anti male poison. We're not out of touch, we just dropped the immaturity, everyone was immature once including me. All of the young people's problems were problems we also had, its a repeating cycle. Trust me, the women she'd 18 - 25 were just as much stuck up back then as the ones today. Also no one was forced into a marriage what the fuck lol we don't live in the middle east, at least I hope you don't.I am not bullshitting him. I am telling him if he listens to blackpilled "poor me" shit he will create a self fulfilling prophecy where he fails because he tells himself he will fail. He shouldn't pretend he will succeed either, because that just creates perfectionism which leads to failure just with extra steps. A man actually starts developing when he just stops giving a fuck and just allows himself to relax.
>>34490221>My brother is both of those things and he got more pussy than a pimp.You are lying to OP, fucking cuntIts such a stupid, brazen lie too because OP and everyone else can see how badly very short, autistic guys get treated nowadays.
>>34490125>Is it over for me?>I recently turned 18oh fuck off
>>34490258I'm not lying to OP, the guy is only an inch shorter than I am and I got laid plenty enough times and have my own wife and kids now. I'm not a normie either, I don't have autism but I got other mental problems. And my hairline is receded to shit now, but even at 18 I had a high ass hairline. Stop enabling vanity it's gay as fuck. Only women worry about vanity, it's such a feminine pussy thing to be a man who worries about his fucking hair of all things.
>>34490264It can be over for you when you are born.Not saying that’s the case for him though.
>>34490274Yes, you are lyingAlways with the anecdotal evidence from you psychopaths
>>34490281>Anecdotal evidenceIt's called experience you idiot. Maybe if you had a sense of self you'd have the balls to count your own experiences as proof enough to form your own perception. The fuck is the alternative? Allow Google and AI to feed you dubious statistics and % graphs of data to live your life for you?
>>34490300You should be killed in the street, fucking psychopath. That's the only way to stop you manipulating people.
>>34490125I'm 20, same situation as you, bro it's over.
>>34490318I'm a psychopath for trying to moralize OP? Telling him my own experiences as a socially maladjusted manlet myself who found social successes to show him it's not over and he shouldn't be shitting on himself? That makes me a psychopath?You're the one trying to talk him into self defeat you fucking dog.
>>34490221look man I don't know how old you are, but I'll say this, things are worse now than they were before by a lot. I'm not saying you are incorrect about people creating self-fulfilling prophecies, but there has not been a more misanthropic period in history than now.I know that real life has never been hunkydory, but i was fed bullshit (albeit well intentioned and not deliberately deceitful) by adults as a kid and teenager that things would get better but they have only gotten worse and I am sick of being told that I am wrong for wishing I was born at least 10 years before I was. I recognize that I have responsibility for many causes for me being a piece of shit, but I had nor have any control over how isolated humans have become due to computers destroying most physical spaces, let alone how little time, money, or energy plebs have to try to find connections with other like minded humans.
>>34490420Of course. Emotional pain is physical. You can heal from wounds but you will be scarred and weakened.
>>34490390If you think those adults were lying to you then you might wanna ask the question: Why would they lie? What reason would I have to lie? I have nothing to gain from a lie on here and neither did those adults. The reason why I say what I said is because your angst, melancholic, misanthropic negative outlook is not special or unique or novel or profound. Because I typed up similar shit you just wrote just now ten years ago. Your perception you have now is not final, you will look back years from now and think yourself a fool same as I look back to myself and think myself a retard.This can be easily proven to yourself too, think back to when you were 5 - 10 years old and try to remember how your worldview was back then. What did your inner monologues sound like back then? What images did you project onto the back of your eyelids back then as a boy in your daydreams? If you are self aware and honest with yourself you will admit it was very fucking different to what you think today. That is evidence that what you will think a decade from now will be different. Because nothing, and I mean absolutely nothing in this life stays the same, not even misery. Yeah technology has made us all dopamine junkies, but technology is just a tool. How you use it will change what outcomes you get. I met friends on the internet who I would visit IRL to make memories with. I met a couple of girls too, who I met IRL and had sex with and relationships with. The only thing that ever holds a man back is perspective.
>>34490125Bro you're 18. You haven't even completed the tutorial level of life yet.
Yes, it is over. I'm 18 almost 19 with better stats than you and I've done fucking nothing this whole age. Literally my most recent memories are from 2023. I honestly might eventually kill myself since there's no signs it gets better. I remember turning freshly 18 and thinking I'd be getting laid now and then nothing happened for 10 months. I'm gonna start going to a community college in August and I guess hope something comes from that socially but probably nothing will and I'll wind up killing myself.
>>34490125Men are seed, women are soil. You're a sapling, an adolescent lion. You'll have to weather many more storms until you're a big tree. Don't do hard drugs, don't die. You'll be fine brother. 18 is a shitty age for men and great for women. 30 is great for men(unless you're a fuck up) and shitty for women(unless they are married with children, not just married mind you).It's a dog eat dog world and everything you want is a struggle. You can either nut up or shut up.
It makes me sad when you faggots say it's over and your fuckups aren't even that bad. You're ugly and lonely? Having money and a life you enjoy makes you VERY attractive. Only thing is, you need to work hard and surround yourself with positive people, and that means being positive yourself. No shortcuts to create that. Nobody you know got drafted and came back in 5 gallon buckets. You didn't spend 2 months in bed waiting to see if you would survive whooping cough. Times are not tougher than they were. Just different. You didn't get raped by a priest. Point being, you're going to be fine as soon as you decide to quit being a faggot and work on building a good life for yourself. The women will sort themselves out while you're getting your shit together.
>>34490125>baldingchlorine dioxide
>>34490125Yes it's over i'm 42 and I mog you
>>34490125https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.Whether you're 30 or 40 it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.
>>34490125>5'5"Go to a doctor to check if you can still take hormones to grow, If you can't, it's pretty much over.>autisticYou can mask it, but if you don't, it's over.>started balding at 16You can prevent this from worsening.You don't have much time, go to the doctor RIGHT NOW, otherwise, enjoy being a manlet.
>>34490125it's not over bro. you just gotta work on yourself. start being autistic about lifting weights and eating healthy. once you start seeing some muscle definition and are feeling better about yourself, then start being autistic about fashion.you can do it my dude. just gotta focus that energy into some real physical action
>>34490125I'm still this way in my thirties.
