After 1 month of our breakup, I wanted to go visit the local farmer's market.Wouldn't you know, my avoidant ex, who ended things with me after 3 years of what I thought was a stable relationship, was walking through even though I've never seen her going to that place during the entire time we were together.I've never felt more afraid. I managed to spot her first and then avoided her gaze while we walked in opposite directions. I think she did a double-take, but she didn't reach out or anything.What did God mean by this? Was I supposed to take that chance and fix things up with her? Was I supposed to ignore her? I feel like a teenager, and I'm afraid she thinks I was ignoring her out of malicious intent instead of it being a total fight or flight reaction against the person who managed to hurt me like I was never hurt before.I don't know if I should text her and make it clear I didn't enjoy ignoring her; it's just that I don't even know if she wants me to even speak to her again face-to-face, that's how worthless she made me feel at the end of the relationship.
>>34490126>What did God mean by this?I don't think that synchronicities mean anything. That is to say, you shouldn't use them as a justification to take action on anything. They are naturally occurring ripples in the fabric of reality.
>>34490184>I don't think that synchronicities mean anythingAt the contrary, I think they can mean a lot.
>>34490803I believe that if 100 synchronicities occur, but nothing actually happens in terms of life events related to the synchronicity, then it's pointless to ascribe meaning to it. Only results matter.
>>34490842Well, OP didn't see the same bird standing on his doorstep twice; he somehow crossed paths with his ex in a completely unrelated place. That's definitely significant
>>34490951If he talked to her, it could've easily gone horribly wrong. You can't ever assume that having a coincidence occur means that taking advantage of it would automatically lead to positive results. This is just astrology for men.
>>34490951>That's definitely significantNo it's not.
>>34490126she probably thought that you didnt see her if she did see youmaybe reach out and tell her that you saw her and wanted to talk to her and say something but you were too scarednothing wrong with admitting thatbut at the same time you dont have to do any of that and with this reply you only need to take away the fact that she might have thought that you didnt see her
>>34490126Framing it as God or fate is just a bit of cope. I'm sorry but the pain will go away eventually.
don’t reach out to her OP. She broke op with you for a reason and yes there is always a reason. Bottom line is she decided that she doesn’t want you in her life anymore and if she wanted you back or your attention she would be the one to reach out. So do yourself a favor and safe yourself from the embarrassment
>>34490126I think your soul was ignoring her because she's a dumb bitch whore. God will make it happen if it's meant to be. If you text her, you absolutely lose.
>>34491763>If you text her, you absolutely lose.How so? I genuinely want to know.
>>34490126>What did God mean by this?Absolutely nothing at all.
Why assume God has anything to do with it. Could be the devil for all you know.
