So... On new years eve i started messaging a girl that gave me signals for the 2 months before new years. I asked her out and she agreed.Since i don't have many friends, she wanted me to join her group which i agreed.We continued talking and i asked her out again and she agreed. Then i stupidly said i was getting feelings for her and her reply was that she didn't know what to say nor how to react (weird since we're both late 20's). Then I told her "if you don't feel anything, talk to me like if nothing happened and itll go away". She agreed.We then continued talking through messages but her replies were becoming more dry each time and she replied normal after a couple of hours to a full day... So i became dry as well. I gave her a gum pack and her last message to me was her saying the gum was really good. I proceed to say "everything I get is awesome" and she laugh reacted 2 times and said "if you say..."I didn't say anything else for 3 months but i still like her.I see her occasionally at work and we smile to each other and I playfully tell her jokes like for example asking for her name so I could register herself inside the building (I work in security).She said "very funny today"Should i even do anything to salvage this?Can yall help me?
I don't think it's salvageable, me in your place would just ignore her forever because of my pride. But have my bump
>>34491028I don't have many friends. I mean... I have none and I just have 2 coworkers that I'm more comfortable with. One is leaving next week.She literally sent through messages on new year that things won't happen if we don't chase them and that they won't appear on our plate easily. That's when i understood that I should ask her out.But now we're 3 months without any message.Just IRL talk whenever possible which is like 1 minute
>>34490913If you didn't even fuck her, then yeah she will think you're a loser for admitting that. Next time try to fuck her and don't admit anything.
>>34491382On a first date fucking her?I'm also a 29yo virgin but sex doesn't scare me. What's scares me if messing up with kissing
>>34491397>On a first date fucking her?If you can. There is no advantage for a man to delay sex, that's the woman's job.>I'm also a 29yo virgin but sex doesn't scare me. What's scares me if messing up with kissingTry to practice with women who you don't care about. You're 29 and you need to practice on hoes first because any woman you get into a relationship will think you're abnormal.
>>34490913>Should i even do anything to salvage this?Your window has passed, unfortunately.>i still like herAs an acquaintance? Because that's what you are. If you like her as anything more, start ignoring her, and you'll forget about her in a few weeks.
