Explain step by step how I can get a gf or a date>work from home in pointless office job >have a car>6' tall and 187 lbs>go to gym 4 times a week>live in city with 250k people and one university >no friends or social life>live in Britain>never made online dating profiles but too ugly to get matches>no woman ever shown interest in me before
>>34491353Fabricate a dating profile that makes you look cool. Take photos with other people wearing nice clothes and doing sports etc. You don't actually have to live like this, just create the illusion.
>>34491443I'm sure they'll never figure it out anon.>>34491353Instead of faking being a respectable man, how about you become one? FUCKING BOY.
>>344913531. Hop on a lifting program that makes it possible to do sports while still lifting as much as you want. I do Tactical Barbell but find something that suits you.2. Select two sports/activities from the following list:>tennis>judo>running with a running club>bouldering if you already have social skills3. Show up to the activities you selected at least once a week.4. Do not hit on the girls here. The girls here are your path to other girls. If one of them takes an initiative and you are interested in her, that's OK, but otherwise, just do the activity.5. Frame your lack of friends and a social life as a call to action. Don't explicitly say that you don't have any friends, but when someone inevitabely asks you why you're there, you can just say>Oh, I didn't have much going on in my life at the moment but I want to do stuff, not just sit around the house, you know?This is not a loser answer and you won't get marked as a loser for saying it, you will be recognized as a chill guy who actually wants to do positive things in his life.6. Talk to the guys as much as you talk to the girls. Make a mental note to try to talk to the guys about two thirds of the time. One of my biggest mistakes has been to exclusively target girls because the guys are boring, that makes everyone aware of what you're doing, don't do it.7. You live in a university town in Britain, so the group will go to the pub eventually. If it's only the guys, you still go with them. If they go to the pub five times without inviting you, you ask if you can come with them. If you show up for ten weeks and there is no pub meeting, you take the initiative yourself. If they say no, keep showing up but don't suggest it for another ten weeks.8. After a couple of pub nights or restaurant visits or whatever, you can start asking people to hang out independently of the activity that you met through. You now have a social life, maybe even friends. 9. Meet girls through your friends.
>>34491353Step 1: Be confident. Douchebag levels of confident. Women are attracted to confidence.Step 2: Spend money on her. Women's attraction is based entirely on how much money you spend on them.Confidently spend money on her, she'll be swept off her feet.
>>34491829>be introvert autist virgin OP>completely change your life, do bullshit you don't even want to do, talk to men more than you talk to women, spend months just participating in shit you're not even into with the hope one of the women will introduce you to one of their friends>in the end, all the stars align and this does happen, and you manage to get together with a fat british alcoholic slag with a bodycount of 8is it even worth it
>>34491829>>34493473By the way, not even saying that's bad advice. This seems like a pretty realistic road towards building a social life and eventually getting a gf. It's just so fucking demotivating that I'll have to go through all of that, none of which sounds fun, just to find love, and when I do, she won't even be a cute introvert I'm compatible with.
>>34491829Having male friends is probably most useless thing there is. It's literally your competition. No Chad is going to take you under his wing and feed you his scraps, lol. There is a reason why OP has never partaken in said bullshit, it is because he doesn't belong.
>>34493493Correct, OP will be counting minutes on the clock while being bored out his mind pretending to care about some gay activities made for petty bourgeoisie not to mention he'd have to pretend to care about other males there, jfl. Even if he magically gets a date and a gf(he won't) he'll drop that shit in an instant.
>>34493473>>34493493If you know what you think is fun, do that instead of the activities I listed?
>>34494357>If you know what you think is fun, do that instead of the activities I listed?I already sit at home playing video games and jerking off all day, anon.
>>34494369Play multiplayer games until it gets you a gf? I know one guy who met his doctor gf through LOL and he's a fat and lazy administrator who poured his life into gaming.
>>34494385I honestly can't even imagine how that would play out. We would just add each other, start talking, and eventually I'd ask her out? And that would actually work?
>>34494388Presumably, yeah, but I haven't played multiplayer games online since WC3. Maybe some other anon can chime in. You might have to be willing to travel to other cities to see her though, but if you're both introverted it might still work.
