>>34492165
It depends on the woman and you've got to find out. Some girls only cum from their clit, some love vaginal

>>34492165
>What do women actually like in bed?
The most important thing to understand is that there are as many different answers to this question as there are women. Every woman likes something different from every other woman. The only way you'll ever find out what any *specific* woman likes is to actually ask her - or, if she doesn't know herself, to try different things and see how she reacts - and ask for feedback later as well. To take one single example of this: some women, if they are turned on, like to have their clitoris directly stroked with a lubricated finger; but in others, the clitoris is so sensitive that it can't be touched directly at all, and you need to stroke it through the hood. There's no way to know if this is the case unless you ask. Good communication is a vital part of good sex.
(To be continued...)

>>34492374
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One tip I can give you is: for most women, what's happening mentally is at least as important as what's happening physically. How much she enjoys herself will depend on whether she's feeling safe, happy, in love, and attractive. (That last one is trickier than it sounds: her feeling attractive is not at all the same thing as her feeling that you are attracted to her - that doesn't mean she's attractive, it just means you're horny).

Another mental thing that's very important is anticipation. You should subtly let her know everything that you're going to do before you do it, so she knows it's coming and is looking forward to it. For example, if she likes having her nipples played with, don't just play with her nipples: stroke slowly up to her breast, then around it, then spiral in slowly towards the nipple, *then* play with it. Or if you're going to go down on her, don't just pounce: start kissing the inside of her thigh at almost knee level, and then kiss slowly higher, so she knows where you're headed.

While it's not universal, women often take a bit longer to get warmed up than men. If that's the case, escalate slowly. If you go straight for the clitoris, that can be painful rather than pleasant; you need to make sure she's properly turned on before you go near it. And she needs to be more turned on still more before you do anything involving her vagina. (Her getting wet isn't enough).

Finally, while many women enjoy penetration a LOT, the majority don't regard it as the main event. "Foreplay" is a concept invented by a man - the idea that there's a bunch of stuff to do "before sex" is a completely male way of looking at it. To a woman, it's ALL sex, from the first kiss to the finish, and penetration is just one part of sex. To a woman, thinking of penetration as "sex" is like thinking of a six course banquet as "dessert". It's a wonderful way to finish sex, but everything that happens before it is at least as important and often more.

>>34492377
As reasonable as this may sound it's much more confusing and arbitrary in reality, as a lot of the woman's reaction depends on her mood, time of the month, your attractiveness level, and the fact she may give wrong signals, pretending to like something she doesn't like or pretending to not like something that she actually finds hot, besides the whole fact that she might not give any verbal feedback at all. I've been with my current gf for almost two years and I'd say I'm doing a fairly good job but still I'm unable to read her body. I try one thing and either she stops it outright or rearranges herself - I guess I'm just autistic.

>>34492165
>what do women actually like in bed
Another woman

>>34494225
This is precisely why communication is so important. Part of that communication might have to include actually explaining why it's necessary that she's honest about stuff! But if you can't communicate with each other truthfully, the sex will never be good.

You to remember their names at the strip club.

>>34492165
They want to get fucked hard by a man they respect and admire. How you make her feel is even more important than what you do.

>>34494674
only real reply here probably other people are incel plebbitors hence their gay blogposts

>>34492165
>I've heard women don't have that much feeling inside their vaginas and lesbians have better sex cause women can handle external female genitals better than men.
Cope for those without good dick.
Just stop thinking and stay in the moment, out of your head, use senses.
t: French

>>34494831
True
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