basically what the title says. i met up this girl 2 weeks ago at a concert, and managed for her to come to another concert just yesterday, as i introduced her to one of my favorite local bands. as it was a shared venue with other bands we saw some before my favorite band, and in this time, she got up close to me, as she walked backwards until my chest and her back met. she din't just stay put, she vibed with the music and me too. it was the first time that i had felt heat like that since a long time. comes my favorite band, and we go up close, where i get nervous and don't start hugging her right away, but some time passes and she does the same, putting her back up to my chest. i complimented the smell of her hair. i even said that if she was a little smaller i could just put my chin up on her head. i felt her size. next, i armed myself with courage and managed to hug her with my left arm, using my hand to touch her right shoulder. i asked if it was OK, and she said yes. we vibed to one of my favorite songs, live. i don't think i'll ever forget that.next, i asked her to go out. she said yes, and that we sould plan something this week. i was ecstatic. if the night ended there, it might've been the best night of my life, but, when at home, i recieved a message from her."heeey, i know that i said yes, but thinking about it i'm not looking to date anyone right now, thanks for inviting me tho!"i couldn't believe the words that appeared in my screen. i still can't. it has been some hours since that message and the sun will rise in a few hours while i slept nothing.i felt her warm blood and boody. i hand't felt anything like that in years. i thought this was my chance. you guys wouldn't believe how long i have wanted to have a nice, adult, date. what should i make of this? should i wait for a change of heart from her? should i just abandon ship or push a little more?
Keep seeing her, maybe she just wants something casual with you and have that turn into a relationshipAsking for a friend: how did you meet her initially at the concert and get her number? I want to do this too
>>34492304>>34492304i don't know how i'm going to keep seeing her. i might not go out soon. i hope that she wants to keep things being casual, but with little opportunity to go out in the following weeks, idk how.i met her initially at the concert as we entered the venue and her friend made some jokes that i found funny, making jokes of the same style, starting to chat with them both. i got her numbers because, when i go out to a public place i always carry a little digicam with me, and when i chat and take a picture of someone they everytime will always ask "hey, and how are you going to send me the picture", and that's when i exchange contact info with them.
>>34492295keked hard, lmao its so brutal for so many males they havnt felt the touch of a human in years
>>34492295>should i wait for a change of heart from her?No. Move on, find someone else.
>>34492295Thanks for sharing. You should be glad that she was so straight forward, a lot of us don't get the same fate. Just yesterday I had a girl unmatch me after telling me she's so excited for our date. We had a 1 hour phone call which she ended with "oh my god this (call) was such a great idea, I'm super excited to see you!"And here we are. So, don't despair, you got a little bit of something which is awesome. I think you should continue to do what you're doing, and simultaneously get some nice photos and open dating apps. Passive income dude, and experience. Just don't let it get to your confidenceAnd I know, women smell awesome, feel awesome, and it's awesome to be around them. And it's often not the courting you think it's going to be, often it's like, you feel the moment is right so you go instantly for a hug or a kiss, full make out or even more. Women just get taken, it's kinda the deal. But it's hard as a man to make that call if you have no experience. Which again is why I'm saying go on dating apps, it's like training wheels, you learn what to do with a girl in a romantic context while being certain that you two are hanging out in a romantic context instead of the immense uncertainty that real life has. And I'm not advocating to drop real life, I'm saying do both. A smart man uses all the tools and all the channels at his disposal so use it! It's multiplication! More apps,more hangouts, more friends, more connecting = more chances, and faster path to having a girl. Keep it up
>>34492466>We had a 1 hour phone call which she ended with "oh my god this (call) was such a great ideaCalls shouldn't be that long. You and OP both should calm down a little bit. Women can be nice, but they're not awesome, not amazing. It's better to be narcissistic than to worship some girl.
>>34492335Nothing funny about it
>>34493281Suffering is funny. I am a total hopeless virgin male, but i have been texting this one girl. Her life is actually much more painful than mine.
>>34492312So you met her in line? What did you say to her or who initiated it?
>>34492466thanks ChatGPT-kun
>>34493830her friend made some joke about "netanyahu, if you can hear me please open up the doors of the venue" so I turned my back around and made a similar joke. previously I had heard them talking abt a TV show that im watching and so I talked to them abt that.
>>34492295Good job, OP. You had the guts to actually talk to a girl and ask her out. Just keep doing this whenever you vibe with girl. Eventually one will become your gf.
>>34492466I despise dating apps lol, it feels so fake all the time. I've used them, and met people from there, but nothing serious.
>>34492335it actually is lmao, I've had sex recently but nothing tops being caressed with care
>>34493918that might be the plan. I hope that it will get better. maybe it won't be soon.
>>34492637How did you get from a 1 hour phone call to worshipping her? We were just breaking the ice a bit and getting familiar, it's something I like to do before a date so I can get a feel for the person and not waste my time on retards, and she liked it, she just ended up being a retard>>34493920They suck, but I do my best to separate my self worth from the app, and well I met a really cool girl there so now I cannot say that they don't work and I'm a bit of a believer. Let's just say it's better than nothing haha>>34493848Not chat gpt, I'm probably one of the only real people left here and I'm effort posting
