>>34493757
You be really kind to others and genuinely interested in them and their experiences. Offer to help when you think you can. Also, stop calling yourself a loser, that's an uncharismatic mindset

>>34493757
I'm 35 and rich af. You need to work on yourself

>>34493769
I literally do all this already but I'm awkward as fuck and am bad at making jokes. And I can freeze up in groups, so people don't like me or think I'm weird.

>>34493769
This is bad advice, if you don't have strong self-esteem this is just a road to getting exploited and being a doormat

>>34493877
Can you stop fucking doomer posting because this list isn't unreasonable. Just roll over and die if you are so damn miserable. Enough with your shitty wojaks and ryan gosling pictures.

>>34493935
You are right on not being a doormat but >>34493769 is also right. Be kind but have a spine.

>>34493877
>self esteem
comes from doing things one does not wish to do
>self love and decent mental health
is earned from being active physically and socially
>active
Go to the gym or go outside
>ambition
do things even if you're afraid or hopeless
>self respect
social belonging; help others

this is the bare minimum for men and women

if you are able to, read 'self respect' by joan didion. and stop BEING A WHINY PUSSY

bump

You have to a) make a shit ton of money and b) do so on your own terms.