>be me>hanging out with gf and her friend >they’re talking about some drama stuff that happened with her friend>scrolls down through text list to show her friend the drama>glance at her phone while she’s scrolling>I SWEAR I thought I saw her ex boyfriends name in the text list >she looks at me and sees a concerned look on my face and ask if I’m ok >we start walking back to the car and see her start doing some stuff on her phone>her friend says something among the lines of “damn you’re doing a lot”>we get back to the car and I ask my girlfriend if she’s still talking to her ex >she says no >I look through her phone, no texts from him, his number is still blocked and deleted>she even says she has no issue with giving me her phone and offered to let me do a deep search but I declined>mfwI have no idea what to believe. I legitimately could’ve sworn I saw his name on the text list but at the same time I don’t think she had enough time to double delete the texts, delete his number and block it again all within the span of like 30 seconds, but I still feel uneasy. She did have a name in her text list that was similar to her ex boyfriends name so maybe I misjudged and thought I saw his name when I didn’t but I still feel uneasy. The only thing that makes me uneasy was her friend saying that thing about “doing a lot on her phone” which makes me think she was super quickly deleting all the evidence and reblocking the number. Do you guys think I’m just seeing things and overthinking ?
>>34494612Yes, I think you saw a similar name and are overthinking. I also think you should break up with your gf because you obviously don't trust her and think that she is the kind of person who would cheat on you. Go find someone else you trust not to cheat
>>34494748KYS right now. Fucking pleditor.
>>34494612>Do you guys think I’m just seeing things and overthinking ?Yes. Definitely. Please break up with her so that she can find someone who isn't paranoid and who trusts her.
>>34494748this, your relationship is a dead man walking
>>34494612It's fine. in a relationship you have to just trust the other person. you can only really know what they tell you. if she is cheating then she is both cheating and lying. if she isn't then she isn't doing either one. you had a candid conversation about it and that's all you can really do.
>>34494612I think she did exactly what you thought she was doing, and then she offered to show you her phone because she deleted everything like you thought she did.Since you believe this happened there's two options.Wait for it to get worse, or break it off.I'm not going to assume things will get better. Most often when guys make threads about girls cheating there was a lot of things leading up to it, where a cautious person would have just broken up and not gotten cheated on. This is clearly one of those times.If you don't want to have to go through the pain of getting cheated on, then dump her. There's little trust in this relationship already, so you aren't losing much.
>>34495653Do you really think she did that or am I overthinking
Bump
>>34495720we can't really know. only she knows
>>34495886What do you think?
>>34495891I doubt it. I think she and her friend were just riding the gossip high and being giggly. Trust your girlfriend because you have no reason not to other than something you're not even sure you saw.
>>34495902I feel like 80% sure I saw it, but I did look at her on her phone and it looked like she was just replying to her other friend that texted her, so idk if she even had enough time to 1. Delete the messages2. Redelete the messages again 3. Delete his number4. Block itI’m so nervous and anxious because I had a situation almost identical in a past relationship and I think it triggered my PTSD. I have such bad trust issues and idk what to do. I really want to believe her but I’m like very positive I saw his name there. What do you think I should do? Should I bring it up again? Should I just try to let it go? I need help desperately
>>34495920I get what you mean man, one of my exes cheated on me and I didn't get a whiff of it until I broke up with her for being retarded for other reasons. My next gf didn't cheat but basically was crushing on this guy and I don't tolerate that so I broke up.This made me adverse to relationships for awhile. A few months ago I met this girl who hadn't been in a relationship before and we were both just open about stuff from the beginning. She's never done anything, not even kissed. Been going good.But that works because even after all the BS I've been through, I trust her. If you don't trust your girl man, just break up. You'll find a better, more communicative person. Have some clear standards through working on yourself and having self confidence.
>>3449592080% is too high to leave it be. Sounds like you saw it and are talking yourself out of it because your in denial
Hoes aren't loyal. Always be ready to jump ship.
>>34496209Do you think I’m just overthinking? Should I just let it go? I feel like I don’t have closure about what happened cause I still have questions but at the same time I don’t want to bring it up again
>>34494612How do you know her ex's phone number? I bet you don't. Men are stupid. She doesn't have "EX I still want to fuck" in her contacts. He's some other name and she changes that occasionally. Its really easy
>>34494612If you even think you saw her maybe texting someone who might have been her old boyfriend and it might have been something you wouldn't like, then you must definitely break with her and with all women ever.
