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>Being alone is worse than smoking 15 cigarettes a day
How the fuck are you supposed to make lifting gains without a gf?
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>>34495138
>Wants meaningful relationship
>Thinks of a gf
You're cooked.
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Simple, get a gf
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>>34495140
I saw my ex with the new guy who works in my fucking gym. I mog him as he is 3 inches shorter than me but somehow i still got mad because i was the one breaking up with the gf and i kinda miss the sex since i broke up last year with my other recent ex and im on a long dryspell. It's fucked
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>>34495138
source?
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Ive always been alone
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I had a really lovely girl, but I thought I could do better so I ruined it
Now I'm alone for my 5th year
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>>34495144
>Now I'm alone for my 5th year
ouch
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What a load of bullshit
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>>34495146
It's literally scientifically proven
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10121112/
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>>34495144
Just ended a 5 year relationship one month ago.
Shit sucks. She was genuinely beneath me, but she was smart and funny and I felt comfortable and happy around her.
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>>34495146
>What a load of bullshit
Unironically i have aged more in the last 2 years than i did in the last 15 because i broke up with my gf and i'm alone. It's the worst thing that can happen to a man and is unatural to be living like this.

Even God said this:
Genesis 2:18
>The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”

The worse thing of all, it that I lost touch with my friends aswell, i will maybe see them twice a month each (i have 3 good friends) so it's 3 meetins max per week. Also my job is wfh and it's killing me. I only work outside in the weekends and the only place i socialize is the gym where i take most of my extrovert out talking to everyone.
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>>34495141
>I mog him as he is 3 inches shorter than me
The fact that you think about people in this manner is a huge sign of immaturity. Thread was about loneliness and all you can think about is sex and your dry spell. You have a lot of growth to do before you're ready for a woman
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>>34495150
>The fact that you think about people in this manner is a huge sign of immaturity.
Are you a jeet or a woman? These things matter a lot anon, it's 2026 and looks matter more than anything nowadays. My ex turned 30 in february and we talked a little bit in the gym and i know she still have feelings, that guy is a small dyel but ngl he has some personality but it's a downgrade.

>You have a lot of growth to do before you're ready for a woman
Unfortunetly I have attachment issues and I can't commit to a woman. Last year I was spamming here about a laywer i was about to marry if anyone remembers, then I tried 2-3 dates with two other women but it didn't work out and now im lonely as it gets.

But i do admit that i'm blackpilled af. I believe looks are everything.
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Being alone is literally inhuman
It's how they torture prisoners
And you're living in it, imagine that
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>>34495141
Youre a walking red flag lmao.
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>>34495138
I do both and feel great, studies are gay
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>>34495153
elaborate
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>>34495155
Okey, I'll prefice this by saying im a woman and reading this gave me the ick like you wouldn't believe.
> I mog him as he is 3 inches shorter than me but somehow i still got mad because i was the one breaking up with the gf
You broke up with HER and youre the mad one? Ahahah dont make me laugh now. This was all your fault really. It doesn't even seem like you wanted her, furthermore your ego is so massive that you get angry that she is seeking happiness after YOU broke up with her.
And who the fuck talks about people like this? Now I dont give a fuck about you being "blackpilled", youre an arrogant faggot who dont see people beyond the surface. Your ego is so fragile that you cant tolerate the girl YOU BROKE UP WITH finding love again. You did her a service by leaving her alone.

Youre a red flag because youre arrogant and self centered. Go fucking reflect over how much of a dickhead you are.
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>>34495138
Yet not a single study quantifies the amount of stress that a relationship/marriage will bring, even accounting for sex
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>>34495156
>this gave me the ick
Act like a real female and stop using tik tok words.

>You broke up with HER and youre the mad one?
This is true but she made me addicted to her chase, she was breaking in my house, sending me emails after i blocked her, calling my sister and bad mouthing me, she also had a major beef with my ex before i had before her, everytime she came in my hometown she wouldn't leave my house until the ex left the country again. So that girl certainly had bpd and i had to break up with her despite the sex being amazing because she was doing way more harm than good but i'll give it to her than no woman ever loved me like this (not even the ex i mentioned who i had 6 years relationship with her).

>you get angry that she is seeking happiness after YOU broke up with her.
I do because when she saw me in the gym i just knew she still wanted me so in my mind her finding love again is so selfish and female coded, she could have waited if she wanted me. Also in the easter a month ago she was still passing outside my house (after 3 years of breaking up)

>Youre a red flag because youre arrogant and self centered
She was telling me the same things, are you her? Also I'm acting like this so i don't break character, i can't be going around looking weak around her. If we meet up we are 100% fucking again and i don't want open that can of worms again. So at the end i'm real for being like this and she respects me for it. Also if you are a real female stop cursing and leave /fit/
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Yeah take that BBP all the way, Anon.
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>>34495151
it sounds like its you that downgraded because you are alone with nothing you fucking loser
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>>34495160
better to be alone than with an expired foid that can and will destroy your life
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>>34495158
You know what damn. I shouldn't meddle into business i dont know. Sorry man, my bad. I was talking from what I knew, but I cant comment since I dont know the full story. My apologies.
>Also if you are a real female stop cursing and leave /fit/
No
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>>34495163
Don't worry annonette
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>>34495151
>I believe looks are everything.
How you can so proudly proclaim your false beliefs even if you don't really believe them? Get a hold of yourself man
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>>34495165
Where was stated that I don't believe them?
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>>34495164
>that picrel
Maybe I take it back
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>>34495163
>>34495164
cuck loser, she's not gonna let you hit
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>>34495168
Nobody talked about that, unc
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>>34495168
>wanting to hit a bitch who browses /fit/
stfu
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>>34495138
being alone =/ being lonely
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>>34495171
It literally is
The study is on the prevalence of human touch and contact
You might fool yourself that you're a based mgtow asexual sigma, but your body is literally dying from lack of touch
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>>34495172
holy cope
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>>34495173
>Pointing out your cope is cope
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>>34495141
You already fucked her and I am skeptical that you were both virgins when you met so you’re not married spiritually.
Let her go. She was never yours. It was only your turn. Now it’s his turn on the ride.
>>34495144
Wow fifth year. Sniff sniff. I cri.
Been alone for 29 years you retarded gorilla. You don’t know what suffering is.
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>>34495139
I'm not a homosexual.
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>>34495141
He mogs you by not being insecure.
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>>34495164
We’re going to have to kill them all.
>but da human race will go extinct, Mr noseberg wont get Hashem AI prophecy and think about all the heckin food that won’t be eaten and the White race
Doooooood let it all die. It needs to die. We need to kill it. The human race.

Kill all women and let us build a monument to Alexander that whatever race finds humanity’s ruins will remember us as we should have always been yet rarely were-Great.
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>>34495176
Ever played a sport? No, didn't think so. You don't need your dick up someones ass for a relationship to be meaningful, your dad sounds disgusting.
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I am 31 years old and I never even kissed a girl
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Have a loving long-term gf. She is funny, same morals, not an idiot and uses no social media at all.

She wants kids soon and to marry, I don't. There's always the flipside of a coin.
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Hi /fit/izens thanks for your dogshit thread
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>>34495138
You don't need to have a gf to avoid being lonely, make some friends. Those relationships are usually more secure and meaningful anyway, because friends expect nothing of you and require little maintenance but interaction.
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>>34495469
Kiss yourself

>>34495138
I agree. Even some cuddles with a girl who's not even my gf after having nothing (not even a girl to talk to) for 2 years is making me want to cry I love it so much
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>>34495145
Been on my own my whole life. 5 years is rookie numbers.
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how about we start with banning cigarettes first
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>>34495469
a friend doesn't fill the girl shaped hole in my life
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>>34495175
Found the 29 year old kek
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>>34497106
boy shaped penis fits your girl shaped hole you homo
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>>34495138
so i´m effectively smoking 30 a day
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>>34495157
choose better loser.
I love my relationship and it makes me less stressful
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>>34495173
you are the one that is coping cause nobody loves you.
Humans are biologically wired to want a romantic partner and reproduce.
Just because you haven’t found that doesn’t mean it’s not true and you are coping and probably distract yourself with cheap dopamine
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>>34495469
faggot is coping. Your friends are not the same as a romantic partner and will never be. Your biology is literally craving for a romantic relationship and to reproduce
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>>34495138
According to... What source? Sounds like made up bullshit, like how the color blue of your screen is supposed to be bad for your eyesight. what a load of bullshit
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>>34495138
>new dyel cope just dropped
Your lack of gains isn't because you don't have a gf. This is kind of pathetic OP, make a better thread next time.
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>>34495141
>I-I-I MOG him! How can he get a girlfriend and I cant?! It's not fair!
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>>34495138
Ever since the covid hoax I stopped interacting with the goyim cattle. I just look through them and pretend they don't exist. I don't even greet them or acknowledge their presence. I'm not staring either, I'm just looking straight through them as if they weren't there.
My life has significantly improved. I am at peace
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>>34498135
Want there a research from the top university in USA, that men in mutual love relationships had higher energy, higher self esteem, became ambitious, better digestion, better sleep, looked healthier to family and friends
Using thr term correctly, not you'd fault you're an incel many are, but it didn't mean we call ourselves saints because we're not about that life.
Some level of loneliness can be addressed by sieving acquaintances and from them finding friends but that takes time and energy, the result is you have a brother for life.
You need to spend the same time and energy sieving women and finding the "one" Because when she's with you, you won't even realise the potential you had until she can in your life
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At 30, I'm halfway through my healthspan, and I've never been loved. Of course it would be fantastic to be in a relationship, but I don't think it's a realistic expectation. Simple as that.
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>>34495138
>>34500553
Life after 30 is a slow-motion suicide without family. It's all the negatives of getting old; watching your friends drift away as they start their own families, your parents and siblings getting old and die, watching everything in your life slowly putter out as the magic fades; without any of the positives of things like family or community to shore you up. Everything rots away and you're left with the bleakness of oblivion, no hope of anything continuing. Anyone who has experienced considerable ageing among his family members (or already in himself), knows how blackpilling it is. It's really rough, once people pass their early 50s (or sometimes even sooner) you start to notice the slip-ups, forgetfulness, the declining of fine motor skills, the difficulties understanding new information. Human existence is a tragedy, there are so few years that you are allowed with full mental and physical strength. Your peak years are mostly wasted with education, where you have barely any control over your own life, because you have little to no money nor autonomy. Add to that the time spent sleeping, working, hygiene, housework, shopping, appointments, visits to the workshop - what do we have left? Everyone who has to work for a living basically leads a precarious existence, regardless of whether they are a simple worker or a well-paid employee. Before they have built up a comfortable fortune and a well established understanding of the world, the body goes downhill.
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>>34495138
i just benched 385 and i've never had a gf, it's easy just lift
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>>34500579
Teenager virgin being an expert on people in their 30s and relationships: the post.
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>>34495138
Wtf? Gfs are the biggest gains goblins conceivable….. a true lifter would NEVER get a gf
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>>34495138
>chosen to avoid women and dating due to chronic illness
>the loneliness is hurting my health even more
LMAO



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