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How to stop being a gay ephebo?
>inb4 kill yourself
Already tried
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castrate yourself
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>>34495951
I don't think you can. Just don't act on those desires
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>>34495951
You can't stop; it's just who you are. You just have to resign yourself to never, ever having sex, never looking at porn of anyone you find attractive, and never telling anybody.

It's actually not that bad once you fully internalise the fact that you can't ever express those feelings. What causes problems is if you get cocky and think "Maybe I can express this in a limited way". For example, you put yourself in a position where you're around boys, telling yourself that you'll be able to control yourself; that will blow up in your face. Or you start downloading CP; that will make the problem so much worse even if you aren't caught, and you probably will be. You need to have zero tolerance of yourself every moment of every day, and never indulge your desires in any way.
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>>34495951
first stop consuming it (obviously)

then they are two schools of thought
1. Go cold turkey dont think, look at or consume any kind of pornographic or sexual content
2. Get a different fetish to distract yourself. Regardless consume less pornographic content it makes you less likely to go for extreme content like pedophile content.

Generally feeling depressed makes you far more likely to consume something that feels good. be aware of that and try to find something else to consume or try to go for extreme content. furthermore fetishes and whatever turns people on the most are taboo and not accepted by seeing it as normal and vanilla makes you far less interested in it.

I've been addicted to gynomorph porn but tips like these made it easier not to consume it. You have demons and your being a good dude trying to kill it.
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>>34495951
start with step 0: acceptance

Ephebophile is a term invented to qualify people attracted to underage yet pubescent individuals (it's a retarded terminology because since our brain does not use the local law to discriminate sexual attraction, every man at least is ephebophile but let's not get sidetracked).

The image you shared is of a pre-pubescent kid. You are not an "ephebophile". You are a pedophile. Sorry to bring it to you.

If you are truly serious about working on this you should stop posting on 4chan and reach out to a local organisation that helps non offending pedophiles to manage their urges.
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>>34495951
Yet you're still here. You obviously weren't dedicated.
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You can't. However, you can put in as much effort as possible to avoid being around children and risking flaring up your urges.
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>>34496333
How? What is the humane way to accomplish this
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>>34495951
Unironically read Kodomo no Jikan instead of watching porn
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>>34497508
No lol
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As long as you don't have urges to abuse real kids, why do you care?

If you do then yes, that is an issue



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