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Hey guys, 24m anon here looking to get a Japanese girlfriend. Do any of you guys have experience or advice? I live near Houston, but I’m more than willing to travel for the experience, and would love some tips. I’ve heard about cultural/language exchange apps that might be a good start before I go to Japan, but I’ve never used them before. I use Hinge here in the states, but I’m not sure if it’s popular in Japan or not.

Any advice would be appreciated
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>>34497325
idk join the military and get stationed in japan. dunno what else to tell ya besides that you're a race fetishist
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>>34497354
I’ll date any race of women, I just have a preference
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>>34497376
does not make what I said not true
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Bump
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>>34497354
someone’s butthurt
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OP are you white?
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>>34498065
just stating the obvious
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I used to like them too, then I traveled, now they're just people
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>>34498073
not really you seem butthurt. You must be a woman that is seething over japanese women
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>>34498067
Half white, half Mexican
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>>34497376
well how dare you have preferences as a moid. you should be grateful if any woman no matter how ugly who deems you worthy enough. you don't get to pick and choose when you're an incel.
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>>34498280
Lol there are “people” that really think like this
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>>34498333
nobody check his numbers he's a misogynist. I don't want to see anyone mention anything at all about them.
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Does anyone have any legit advice though?
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>>34498152
i didn't say don't do it. i just called it like it was. i even gave him an in
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>>34499282
I cant say from experience but from what I have read from others online before:

>only way to find japanese girls is to go to japan
>only real way to do that is to become a english teacher
>western english teachers are notorious for this and it has a bad rep, more of a "hes a loser who couldnt make it back home"
>japanese women are like white women in terms of impossible standards but you have a language barrier on top of that

not saying its impossible but its an uphill battle thats probably not worth it. as for japanese girls in the west forget it. asian girls, at least here in the states, have this thing where they have to prove themselves as "true (insert ethnicity here)" by dating only other asians of their types. the ones that dont do that are super ghetto and basically latinas.

Just curious anon, did you make this post because of anime?
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>>34498244
>Half bean
Japanese women aren't going to downgrade for you. Give it up.
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>>34499282
japanese girls are like any other girl except for the following:
1) they value clean aesthetics
think hollister model or hollywood actor types
2) they do no know anything about spanish speaking countries generally
3) 95% do not want to date foreign men
but they will fuck them for a night if they're tall, and handsome enough

so my advice is: be tall and attractive
if not you have to learn japanese to a full conversational level (autism required)
i say this as someone who lives in Japan and gone on hundreds of dates with japanese girls
had multiple japanese girlfriends, despite being short and Mexican
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>>34497354
>you're a race fetishist
so if anon likes something it's automatically a fetish? consider the possibility of a lil break from social cancer you drooling idiot.
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>>34500217
But I’ve already been with 2 Koreans in Seoul, and an FOB Chinese girl here in Houston, can Japanese women really be that different?
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>>34500190
No, I made it because of Chiaki Kuriyama in Kill Bill
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>>34500332
What were they like as girlfriends? Was it different than the ones that were just hookups? And what did they think of you being Mexican?
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>>34500794
why is everyone assuming I'm trying to dunk on him by calling him a race fetishist? or that I'm some seething foid? its like being a foot fetishist. recognize the desire for what it is and ask yourself if a full relationship built around sexual preference is respectful to the other person or not. proceed with care.
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>>34501594
These incels are the one seething. I agree with you wholeheartedly. Males should never ever be allowed to have preferences.
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Race mixing is so 2010 dude, don't subject your children to that. Life is gonna be hard for them in the coming decades
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>>34499282
Become friends with Japanese women online, x is probably a good place cause with the new translation feature Japanese and Americans interact a lot.
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>>34501604
Hes already mixed race
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>>34501594
>ask yourself if a full relationship built around sexual preference is respectful
why the fuck wouldn't it be? when you see a chick and think to yourself "she's pretty" you're not gonna ask her out because that's not respectful and instead find someone ugly? are you retarded?
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>>34501600
this is why you will remain single and your time is running out. tick tock.
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>>34503581
nta but relationships built on the foundation of "she's pretty" or "she's japanese" will not last.
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>>34501553
they are just like any other girl, depends on the one you got
but ones that are willing to date foreigners tend to have a specific personality (they love western movies and music and Disney)
generally more shy and take time to open up

but that's just the girls into me, some friends get with girls who are like any other girl, outgoing, cheerful, whorish, there's everything

they do not even care or care to understand what being mexican even means most of the time.
if it's not in a hollywood movie they don't care
trust they don't even know they speak spanish in Mexico
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>>34503581
>>34503811
This is why relationships are dying, the idea of relationships has been filled with contradictory nonsense.
>sex with random strangers is liberating but your boyfriend being attracted to you is demeaning
>the male sex drive has been so demonized it's not even allowed to do its one proper use
If we don't get cloning working soon we're done for as a species.
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>>34500332
imo i think for short latin dudes, japan would probably be better than some place like korea, i see more success from them over there, because you really wouldn't have the same success even if you spoke korean well
>>34501158
So from this, you're probably already white passing anyhow, being half beaner is only an issue if you aren't white passing
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>>34504177
>So from this, you're probably already white passing anyhow, being half beaner is only an issue if you aren't white passing
Say what you will about the Italians, they did a lot of mutts a favor.
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>>34504334
I don't get what you mean, are you saying anglo-american stock is dysgenic or something?



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