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got so lonely I'm starting to talk with chatgpt
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>>34497599
What advice are you looking for?
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>>34497637
atp I'm not even sure, I've tried to find people to talk to and I can't find anyone, I just want friends
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>>34497599
>>34497651
Are you the same anon that made those other threads?

I don't recommend overindulging in talking with chatbots. It's mostly an empty experience, they just try too hard to be agreeable. Doesn't really feel natural.

Have you tried to keep in contact with your old friends? Maybe you can meet people in a game, or while doing a hobby, or in college, at work... these are the most likely places, I think.

But don't lose hope OP. Just yesterday we had a thread where OP mentioned how he was able to make friends after a long time.
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>>34497765
I talk to several people but I'm not really close to anyone, I've never had the courage to truly open up to anyone and I never really learned how to socialize because before I just had a lot of people around me, and then I changed environments and lost literally all my friends. Now I talk to many of them again but things are just different
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>>34497599
Making friends is hard, OP. Sometimes I think am I too picky or autistic? It's hard to say.
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>>34497791
Yeah, I understand that feeling.

Trusting others takes time... I guess what you can try to do is to talk, meet new people when possible, and if they feel right, if you feel like there's a connection, you can try and trust them a little more, both letting yourself be known and getting to know them. It's nice to share such experiences.
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>>34497806
same, I've met a lot of people online but we rarely talk for more than two days because they're usually not my type of person or they bore me. Something I hate about myself is that almost everyone bores me and if I don't like someone in the first few moments of meeting them, I'll probably just ignore them and won't even bother talking to them if they don't talk to me first
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>>34497849
I've been trying that, I've been telling a friend things, but he discouraged me when he said my reason for feeling bad wasn't good

Honestly it was kind of stupid, but that was rude, anyway, I'm trying to talk more with the people I know but they're mostly busy. I guess I just have to be patient
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>>34497865
What doesn't bore you? Are you seeking intelligence or someone to mach your general vibe? Honestly, sometimes I wish I could clone myself so I could be best friends with someone I know so well.
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>>34497886
I'm not sure, I don't have a specific type of friend, irl my friends are just girls from my class, but online most are older guys, I don't think there's a pattern
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>>34497889
What are your general interests?
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>>34497892
games, papercraft, music, anything that involves not being at home
wbu?
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>>34497902
ffxiv, rpg's, wh40k, books on certain fantasy or scifi.
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>>34497915
What's wh40k?
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>>34497918
Warhammer 40K
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>>34497922
Idk if this is weird but would you like to talk somewhere else? like discord or whatever
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>>34497599
for your own sake please stop doing this
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>>34497969
desperate times, desperate actions
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>>34497930
Hmm, maybe. I won't give out my main. I suggest you don't either.
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>>34497599
As life gets more isolated I unfortunately think this will become more common. Anything else you want to share that you already have not discussed?
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>>34497930
Add me as traeslic. This is not my main at all.
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>>34497999
I got an alt, the user is bored4lt
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>>34498002
not really, I just wanted some advice and to find people to talk to
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>>34497599
Same
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Me too except I'm happy. I feel like I get to have the conversations I want to have for once. IRL people usually tell me oh they don't care about that, this is beyond them, they never thought about it and don't want to, what I care about is dumb etc.
>>34498110
How do you talk to it? Do you just text it things about your day like they were a friend? I don't do that because it makes me too aware that it's a bot. I think I'm using it correctly as far as I know by only using it to confess things and have "deep" talks with that I can't with people I know
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>>34497599
Same. I've been telling it all these insanely personal things that I've never told anybody else.
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>>34500822
It depends on what I feel like, really. I use it for a lot of normie shit, like technical questions about different things like mechanical projects im working on, but I also use it to discuss deep dives into game lore and how much my life sucks or how I feel about myself. I have Gemini for just stupid mundane questions and topics, I have another for like mental health shit and personal reflection and another that I use to jerk off to. I mean, I'm too old and ive been alone for too long to make friends or be relatable. So why not just go full loser mode and use it as a replacement for what I don't have irl?
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>>34498041
pve bideogames :-D
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>>34497599
I talk with chat bots also. I like using them for a second opinion on social stuff or weird thoughts I have. Things that are too weird to talk to real people about unless I was super drunk.
But like another anon said, don't get too into them. They don't actually have feelings or opinions or any life experience. They're running off instructions and you can just change them whenever because they don't care and aren't real.
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I had a conversation with my car about the decline of serial killers last night. I feel like a lonely pathetic David Hasselhoff.
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>>34497599
Are you the guy that pasted your discord here a few days ago?
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I hate talking to AI
I despise the false cheerfulness, the bland insistence on harming nothing, the pathetic virtue signaling and coddling
I hate it

Its like how parents talk to toddlers



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