I've been trying to improve my stamina for about two months. I've seen some progress, though yet to try it out with a 3D female, so who knows.Is it worth seeing a sexologist? Do they actually do anything or are they just very expensive quacks who'll give me some vague advice about focusing on mindfulness or whatever?
>>34497687Also have PE (and never been with a 3d woman), do you mind sharing what you're doing?I don't know how qualified sexologists are, but i think that urologists may be related since it has to do with penises. I am going to speak to one about not being able to get everything out when i take a piss, but am also going to ask about this since im really insecure about it.
>>34497867Some guide on reddit, stupidly titled the MaleDefinitiveGuide. The brief synopsis is that you edge daily without orgasm and without porn, gradually increasing the amount of stimulation, so that you a) become used to the pleasure and b) train your mind/body to want to seek it rather than just chase the orgasm. It's meant to let you "master your orgasm", i.e. you never feel the urge to come during sex or masturbation because the pleasure itself is enough, but should work as a PE tool too.The subreddit has a bit of a cult-like mindset where the guide (a PDF) is like scripture that is infallible and that if you fail its because you didn't follow the guide. But I don't see a reason why it shoudn't work, and personally I'm lasting longer when I'm shagging my right hand, so yknow.
>>34497687>Is it worth seeing a sexologist?If you mean a sex therapist, then yes.
>>34498120Don't know what the difference is. Will one just be there to talk about my feelings while the other gives me something practical?
>>34498134>Don't know what the difference is.Sexologists are people who study sex, not help people with it. It's like the difference between a doctor and a biologist.
>>34498398Okay, sex therapist then, my bad.So you'd recommend them? Why?
>>34497687Quack solutions to quack problems.
>>34498822The problem is very much real, a stopwatch can tell you that.
>>34497687premature ejaculation isnt a real issue. you came, thats all that matters.
>>34498904That doesn't make it a problem
>>34499514>>34499610It is when it happens in 30 seconds or less.>Work around it with foreplayGirls want penetration, I know this from experience.
>>34500329If you can inseminate the egg it's not a problem. And you can tell the girl to go cry about it if they take issue with it. And you'll probably have more control over it the more you do it.
>>34500639That doesn't work in real life. Sex is bonding and breeding, when you nut instantly you cut out the bonding part. Women don't want that, I would know because I lost one, in part because of our terrible sex.And no, I don't, I was single for a while and it got worse during that time. That's why I have to spend time (and maybe money) undoing it so I can have an at least average sex life.
>>34500645Women are monolith memeNo, you don't need to spend shit, you just need to find a woman who isn't vapid as fuck and actually likes you
>>34500654I think it's fair to state that women are monolithic when it comes to something like "I want to have good sex". It's like wanting someone who communicates well, and moreover I don't want to be in another situation where my poor performance sours a relationship and bruises my ego.We clearly have incompatible views on this so arguing further is useless.
>>34500673If you people actually liked each other, the sex would be good regardless. Rather than souring a relationship it sounds like it just filters someone who wasn't compatible anyway earlier
