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Dating is hard for me because I can't be normal no matter how I try.
No woman has ever felt the "chemistry" or "spark". This isn't attributed to luck, it's attributed to the fact that I am a beta nice guy, an accidental one. Essentially, I am way too friendly on dates. I do not know how to flirt or have general sex appeal. As a result, these all feel like hangouts rather than a date. I don't know how to fix this. Every time I go on a date, I am not thinking hard on my feet enough to tell a woman things that she may find as charming. I also don't know how to practice this, as men like me maybe get 3 dates a year if lucky. I want to be swooning and cunning, and I want to have an actual personality. I don't try to be a nice guy, it's just that years of negative reinforcement as a child has taught me that the only way I can make friends and get people to like me is by being a people pleaser. So even when I try to be edgy, I fail. How the hell do I practice??? I'm trying to change as a person but I keep falling into the same habits!! What the hell do I do?
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here
https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill
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I don't want to black pill. This won't change me. I want to be able to make a connection with someone instead of scaring them off.



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