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Apparently that’s what I said to my parents. I’m horrified and don’t know how to cope. They think it’s disgusting, but they won’t disown me or anything. I’m honestly considering suicide, though. I never wanted this information to get out. Now that it is, all I feel is shame and embarrassment. I don’t want a relationship with another man, but now everyone expects I do? There’s no coming back from this, is there?
Fuck my life.
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>>34498814
stop drinking
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>>34498814
brother once when I was 15 (this was in 2009) my friend had sent me a picture of actual CP from 4chan because that's what 4chan/culture was like, you showed shocking shit to your Internet friends.
Anyway I closed the tab, or thought I did. But it turned out Firefox had spasmed out and just hid itself, no idea how to this day. Anyway my mom came in while I was pirating some stuff and it popped up.
She was obviously very upset and I explained it was a bug from pirating. It was fucking terrible and I still think about it all these years later.

But the moral of the story? I did and we did in fact get past it never to be spoken of again. If lucky your parents think you were just being a drunk retard and soon you will all choose to never speak of it again
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>>34498849
I’m starting intensive outpatient for it tomorrow, but honestly I need 1-on-1 therapy to deal with the damage, not this group shit.
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>>34498883
>But the moral of the story? I did and we did in fact get past it never to be spoken of again. If lucky your parents think you were just being a drunk retard and soon you will all choose to never speak of it again
I already told them the next day that I’ve hooked up with guys before, but never dated one. I’ve only dated women, and that’s all they knew until now. I never want to speak of it again, but I feel like it’s an elephant in the room now. They’ll always think I’m a fag, along with the rest of my immediate family.
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>>34498814
Do you like sucking dicks or are you Jim Lehey gay?
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>>34498910
You don't know what they will always think, they will let it go or accept it at some point. They may have a "hmm" thought when seeing you with a woman but when you actually start to date someone they'll accept or they're terrible parents
Idk wtf is wrong with you telling your folks about your sex life though wtf they don't need or want to know
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>>34498937
I used to, even felt a bit of shame afterwards, but now I’m traumatized. My family was never supposed to find out.
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>>34498968
>Idk wtf is wrong with you telling your folks about your sex life though wtf they don't need or want to know
Because it’s what I said when I was inebriated. They were like, “Do you know what you texted your cousin? Saying you’re a faggot? You have serious issues. You are an alcoholic, and now this.”
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>>34498969
Damn nigga you gay and now your dad knows you're a cocksucker. It's ogre.
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>>34498992
Yeah I want to kms.
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>>34498989
Okay so stop drinking, apologizing for your wildly inappropriate behavior, and never, and I mean never, mention it again beyond that.
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>>34498814
Fatfag strikes again >>34480376
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>>34499139
Even if I do that, I don’t know how to think about this in any positive way. I feel like my reputation is ruined. Everyone will think I’m a closeted fag. I’m so tired of feeling ashamed of myself for so many things.
>>34499182
fag
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>>34499204
Indeed, a samefag LARPing
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>>34499605
This isn’t made up.
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>>34499612
you a cock sucking homo.
you are a faggot. you will get aids.
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>>34499686
I’m trying not to. I already got anal chlamydia, syphilis, and internal anal warts from HPV from one person. It was a wake up call, having your ass swollen and having surgery twice to cauterize the warts. Sticking to oral is much safer.
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>>34498814
Just say it's autofellatio
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>>34498910
Homie, you've fucked other men. You are gay. Just accept it.
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>>34498814
So maybe you're gay. So are millions of other people. What's the tragedy?
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>>34500592
I’ve never identified as gay. I’m not comfortable with the idea. I’d much rather be with a woman. I don’t fantasize about falling in love with men like I do about women.
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>>34500617
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zd8vzIRQLLM
sorry i dont know shit about anything but this just fits the situation so perfectly
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>>34500622
The nigga is right. It’s only gay if you catch feelings.
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>>34498814
>I’m honestly considering suicide, though.
I'm quite sure they would rather have a cocksucking son than a dead one.
This isn't the end of the world, although I couldn't imagine the shit your feeling right now.
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>>34498814
Sorry parents. Your multi billion year evolutionary journey is over as I will not give you offspring because I like drinking SPERM more than engaging with the opposite sex
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>>34498814
deny everything, say you don't remember shit. it ain't rocket science
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>>34498814
are your parents homophobic? it appears the problem is their homophobia, not your homosexuality
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>>34502771
I wouldn’t say they’re homophobic, but they definitely think it’s gross and a hard way of life.
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>>34498814
just give me the sauce on this image
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>>34503036
This
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>>34503036
I don’t know it. Some other anon posted it.
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>>34500014
he said he never developed romantic feelings toward another man. just having sex with dudes does not you gay lmao
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>>34503012
do they want to have grandchildren? theres nothing gross about a sacred act like a blowjob. and a hard way of life? well because of them it is for you right now, yeah
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>>34503530
My brother already gave them grandchildren. I’m 40 and a massive fuck up, so it was probably not gonna happen anyway. They’re 80yo boomers. Of course they think gay anything is gross.



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