Please help me with this chat log as I'm autistic.ME — 8:37 PMHey, can I ask you something?HER — 8:37 PMSure.ME — 8:37 PMDo you like me?HER — 20:38I can like you as a friendME — 20:39I like youHER — 20:40Yeah, I don't know how to react to this lolBut I don't think I'm worthy of having someoneEven though I really want toME — 20:40At least now you know :3HER — 20:41YeahAt leastBut I can't reciprocate your feelings for me, I know you don't want to read this, but I also can't say something that would make you happy, like saying I like you beyond friendship, because then I would be lyingI don't want you to be sad about this eitherAnd I also don't want to ruin our friendshipME — 20:43I understandbut why can't I?HER — 20:43maybe because I don't feel the same way you feel about meME — 20:44I'm not sad :vlet's be good friendsHER — 20:44yes :)And now she's installing some game to play with me.
>>34499051I haven't known of someone getting friendzoned this hard since a Japanese girl said "we can be friends" to me and the look of the girl walking by was mortified.
>>34499051Yeah, you're friendzoned. The message at 20:38 from her says everything you need to know. All the dialogue afterwards is just soft rejections.There's a next to zero chance she will ever see you as something other than a friend in the future.Time to take the L and move on. Or you can continue being a 'girlfriend' to her if you want. You're the captain of your ship.
>>34499096>>34499127Thanks guys.
>>34499051>Please help me with this chat log as I'm autistic.It means she is not attracted to you because she finds you dysgenic, but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings because you are a tard. My advice is, slowly drift away from her and find another woman you're interested in, and instead of trying to slowly get closer to her, show her upfront that you're interested in her romantically. That's the only way.
She doesn't like you but is trying to avoid confrontation.Honestly she probably wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire.If you want to keep your dignity you have to just ghost. Her continued presence will be a constant reminder of your inadequacy. Very bad for your future personal development.
>>34499051If you want this girl, or any other girl, to like you OP, you have to demonstrate that you have something to offer her and that you're capable of looking after her.>a decently well-paying job, so that she can leech off of you>owning a car, so that she never needs to walk anywhere>owning a nice house that's comfy to live inPeople, for the most part, are incapable of divorcing their idealized boyfriend/girlfriend from what their DNA finds ideal. 50,000 years ago, every woman that managed to procreate was attracted to men who were capable of providing them and their offspring with food, shelter and safety from wild animals, while only expecting them to birth their children in return. Cavewomen that were attracted to the shy beta cavemen produced offspring who were less capable of hunting, and fighting off wild animals that threatened the tribe, and so would eventually result in that tribe's extinction.Over many thousands of generations, this begets a species in which the females tend to be exclusively attracted to males that are capable (or at least appear to be capable) of providing for them; and also viewing any other male as completely unworthy of using their uterus for a whole 9 months, and therefore not necessarily someone to be mean to, but just someone to never procreate with (This is you OP. She's happy to have you in her tribe. But she doesn't see your genetics as being worth the 9 month investment). That's why golddiggers are so common in the present day. It is quite literally in a golddigger woman's DNA to only be attracted to super rich men. I almost can't even blame them. They're just doing what worked for their ancestors for millions of years.>tl;dr OP did something to make his friend think he has sub-par genetics. Maybe he does, maybe he doesn't. But the point is that OP said or did something prior to this chat log that triggered her internal "this guy has bad genes" alarm.You poor bastard, I'm genuinely sorry to hear this, OP.
Ugh, is this really how you autists talk to girls these days? If you want a girl to like you, you don't have a text conversation this gay. You sound like her gay friend that she vents to about guys she wants to fuck. Your chances are zero now, but if you want some advice for the next one: go in for a kiss. If she likes you she will kiss back. If not, she will pull away. No words necessary. Sure, it will be awkward if you get rejected, but at least you shot your shot. This "ummm hey, uh, I like you do you like me??" 2nd grade notes bullshit is embarrassing.
>>34499051You shouldn't need to confess.
>>34499051Yeah, you were friendzoned at 20:38. The rest of the conversation was redundant.
>>34499051She's not interested, but I also wouldn't take this as a verdict on you as a person. She's one person. Choosing someone to mate with is huge. You don't choose someone you kinda like. You choose someone you absolutely love that ticks all the boxes that you find important.Therefore my friend, understand 2 things: 1) her not wanting you romantically doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it is her preference, and girls want their version of perfection, not settling.2) to continue with her means you're accepting, truly, that she will never be something more. If you want something more it'll just end up hurting you and your relationship will suffer too because as she feels you want her more she'll pull back more, leading to a sad relationship death
>>34499051One doesn't ask "Do you like me?" That leaves her in a trap because either a yes or a no will be interpreted as too extreme. You can see her struggling to find a way out of the trap.
>>34501066>One doesn't ask "Do you like me?" That leaves her in a trap because either a yes or a no will be interpreted as too extreme. You can see her struggling to find a way out of the trap.Why would you lie to a tard? You're just making things much more complicated than they should.
