They keep saying women like confidence. You need confidence. But where do I get that from? I don't have a huge dick that would make a bitch yelp.
have a baseline level of competency (shower, workout, study well), then the rest is just bluffing.
>>34499108Unfounded confidence is self sabotage. (js).
>>34499108Confidence is something that comes with practice. Pick a girl you know fairly well and who you don't mind being rejected by. Go up and talk to her, and then just drop the bomb and ask her out. It will take some effort and she'll probably say no. In fact, there's a very high probability that she will say no. But that doesn't really matter because now, when you do that for a second time with another girl, it'll feel a tiny bit easier. Eventually, you start to not care that much about getting rejected.Being funny/humorous is also important. For some reason, girls really like guys who are funny. Observational humor is an easy way to appear like you have a good sense. While you're conversing with a girl, notice things that are happening in the environment around you two, then make an off-handed joke about it. This will probably take some practice, but it becomes easy after a while.>>34499344This guy is also correct. Do the basics, like showering, shaving and wearing nice clothes. Even if you're really funny and confident, she won't want to hang around a guy who never showers or washes their clothes.
>>34499108>But where do I get that from?You build>>34499416This is not confidence, this is acting like a jester
>>34499465>This is not confidence, this is acting like a jester>confusing making jokes about what's going on around you with making derogatory jokes about yourselfA jester makes themself the punchline of the joke. Why the fuck would you make yourself the punchline when making a joke to a girl? You wouldn't. You would instead notice something happening nearby and make that the punchline of the joke. Girls love it when you can make humor out of nothing, you tard. Clearly you don't actually talk to women, or otherwise you'd already know that.>Example:>You're sitting with a girl at a bus stop>It's raining, but only lightly>some guy walks past wearing a rain jacket and also holding an umbrella>you say to the girl "it's not raining much, but at least he gets an A for effort"I know it's a lame and cheesy joke. But a lot of girls tend to like lame and cheesy humor and will probably still find it funny anyway. A joke like that would probably elicit at least a chuckle and make her think of you in a more positive light.
>>34499615>gives a totally wrong definition of what a jester is
>>34499636>using jewgle to search for things instead of SearXNG (formerly searX)>everYou filthy, unwashed normalfag lmao.
>>34499108learn dark manipulation and bend all women to your will with the snap of your fingers
>>34499465RightThe other anon is talking about being good at cracking jokes, if that's the only thing then in terms of the "sizing up" in social dynamics, anon will be categorised as someone not to be taken seriously, and will be mocked in intra sexual competition.Confidence on the other hand implies not just striking a convo but handling the more "in your face" conflicts, when someone is a brute and you need to stand up for yourself, giving a speech in front of people, you need to make that phonecall, giving interview, making the right decision, reacting to immediate crisis, even day to day living.I know competence in one aspect of your life will give you confidence in others. People who have correctly picked their career path become competent in that area and that confidence permeates into other areas of their life. As a result they're able to have conversation with people->women without any hiccups.The same cannot be said for an autist who genuinely has no idea. Having no idea about anything in life implies you have no idea of "how to" and "what to". Autists need a quantum guide, every permutation and combination of conversations or they'll hit a sour patch and never recover. Normies don't get it. I know for normies, there's no right answer, it's like a game of volleyball where you adjust you position in the court and the position of your wrists to get the ball to other side. Autists need training in all possibilities from a coach to the point it becomes sub conscious, when it becomes sub conscious then the autist appears to be a normie. Further training and he becomes a functioning member of society.
>>34499108If you're looking for an actual relationship and not whatever people are out here doing these days, stop thinking sex defines a relationship. A lot of women don't care about a giant dick. As long as it's enough to satisfy, you're good. A woman who actually cares about the relationship won't leave you just because it's average or below.
there are many many anwers to that simple question. i doubt you are that stupid, not to brainstorm even one or two answers yourself op.and then, when youve brainstormed some, you can be proud and confident that you did that yourself.some like to say fake it till you make it and they would be correct, too.
>>34499108it boils down to self-love. it is about being able to forgive yourself and treating yourself with mercy.. & GRACE. self-compassion. being able to know why you do something, believing youre acting in accordance of your own beliefsdont mistake rigid thinking as confidence though. become more open to changing your beliefs, such as the one about how you are not confident
