how to move forward being the loser of the family?Weddings, gatherings etc are a humiliation ritual , and I can’t catch up to my siblings.
Stop being the loser? Just do something with your life.
At least you get invited to weddings. My two best friends growing up did not invite me, and the two cousins I have that got married did not invite me.
>>34499186That's genetic
>>34499188>My two best friends growing up did not invite meThey're assholes
>>34499171Same. I live with my parents, and I dread any family function. It’s gotten to the point where they don’t ask or expect me to participate anymore. It feels awful.
>>34499171What do you do for a living? What does your family and siblings do for a living?Could always go back to school for a career change if you really want.
>>34499171Why is that every blade runner pic is a shit larp projecting
>>34499171I just don't go to family gatherings that aren't for close family (siblings/parents). Saves a lot of time and I never enjoyed those anyway.
once a loser, always a losert. 30 years old loser
Join the military.
>>34499171Stop measuring yourself by THEIR standards. As long as you are thinking "No, I didn't get a massive promotion like you did" you will feel a loser. Measure yourself against yourself last yearl "I quit that awful job andI'm much happier even if I'm making less" is a statement of success, not failure.
>>34499171>>34499238I feel the same both for family and friend gatherings.I'm ashamed of my situation. I don't like having to answer to their questions, and either having to lie or to try and change the subject.I'm distancing myself from them more and more, as I try to avoid it all. Not because I don't like them, but because of shame, though I believe they migh think it is the former.>>34499188>>34499218Yeah man, that is rough. Unless they both had a super private wedding with just them and their partners, that's really lame.>>34500997I would've a long time ago already, if my country allowed it, but it only allows young people to join (up to like 22 years maximum)
lmao who cares dude, both of my sis make 6 figures and i dont worko no one that busy prob cares about anything but themselves
