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>undiagnosed, but something aint right
25, socially akward, barely have any friends, let alone a GF, and without any meaningful hobbies other than videogames, might as well be a hikikomori.

What are some good (preferably "nerdy") hobbies I can try that will let me try to be more social?
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>>34499272
Try blogging about your life like that nip in the picture you posed. Maybe you'll find some kindred spirits.
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>>34499272
Learn to dance
Learn to cook
Hiking, jogging, bicycling, etc clubs
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>>34499272
sign up for flamenco class.
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>>34499272
You can convert that to gaming meetups. Check out meetup in your area on the normal sites or even just dedicated arcades. Conventions are really good too.
Just not barcades, barcades are gay as fuck and only millennial posers go there.
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>>34499272
No woman will ever love you anon, 90% of women out there do not love their man, they don't know how to love anyway; they only tolerate him as long as he provides.
Learn to be stoic and get by without their fake and subpar love therefore about 90% of women should be invisible to you. Rise up above your biological programming.
Take care of your health anons and find distractions to help pass the time, that's all most people do anyway, the difference is they do it with somebody so time spent together flows differently. It's merely an illusion though
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>>34499272
>diagnosed
who cares? whether your have autism or not you still have to put forward the effort to do things outside your comfort zone. you do not get hobbies by doing nothing, and you do not get friends by not having hobbies. you need to use your mind and think of things you might like to do, and then use your body and just try things anyway. blaming autism is just convenient
>try climbing, hiking, mahjong, intramural sports, ceramics, whatever you want >>34502245
You've coped so hard you forgot how to be a human being. what a complete fucking depressive
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>>34499272
Magic: the Gathering. Physical activities like sports are great, but you said you prefer nerdy hobbies. Board game groups are also quite social.



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