So I fell in love with a friend of mine and asked her out recently, and she was elated and agreed. It's semi long distance for the time being as she's away visiting family, but I have some worries.I've always gravitated more towards thicker/chubby women (like picrel, sometimes bigger), and while I wouldn't call her 'skinny', she's definitely on the slimmer end of average. At first this didn't bother me, cause when I first saw her I was taken aback at how stunning I found her, but I find as I wait for her to return, my tastes in porn remain the same and I don't really gravitate toward other slim women. I also take antidepressants that fuck with my libido, so I rarely get fully erect (was prescribed Cialis to counter it, but haven't tried it).I'm 22 and still a virgin. Spent a long time severely depressed and isolated due to undiagnosed Autism, Social Anxiety and PTSD + attending a shit school making it really hard to relate to people. I also don't really want to do hookups as I'm worried about being used and discarded. I've never been crazy hung up over it. I suppose if it did come out I would be ashamed, but as it stands I'm fine where I am. While I have my typical type, I figure I connected so much with this girl that it'd be worth a shot. Am I being naive?
>>34500481>Is It A Good Idea to DateIn 2026? No.
>>34500491Do NOT follow this niggas advice
>>34500481Of course dude. One thing is to have an ideal body type and all. Maybe the guy has a preference for this and that, but personally I don't think that should get in the way of forming a relationship with a person you click well.Having this sort of connection is the rarest thing in a relationship, specially nowadays. I recommend you don't squander it.Besides, there's nothing preventing her from getting into a chubbier form with time
>>34500481Everyone has a "type" but it is VERY foolish to limit yourself to your type. Ultimately, any relationship is going to be with the person inside the body, and a person you connect with, who happens to be in a different type of body, is more promising than someone who looks like your archetype but turns out to be un-sympatico.
>>34500481How would you feel if she had a penis and balls hiding under that skirt? Would you consider yourself gay then?
>>34500547Just to be clear, by 'of course' I meant to say that of course you shouldn't let that get in the way of you relationship with her.
>>34500547OP should drop the meditation, drop the mental illness labels. And sneak in calories into every meal he has with this gf.
>>34500481If you're attracted to this woman, then the fact that she isn't your normal type is irrelevant.
never date someone you don’t find attractive. It will get miserable. Also fat people are so disgusting. Even the girl in the pic. Disgusting fat bitch
>>34500481>Is It A Good Idea to Date Against Type?It's not a bad idea. My wife isn't really my physical type, but she's my type every other way. We've been happily married for 29 years, never had a single fight or even serious disagreement.
If you want a fat wife, marry a skinny woman
>>34500596buhbuhbased
>>34501960Sounds like some Confuscius shit. Man who throw watch see time fly!
>>34500481You're into her no? So does it matter? Also why not ask her if she could gain a little weight then? Or maybe it'll happen on its own after you start dating anyways
>>34502047Its probably based on how women gain weight when they settle down. The men do so as well but its more noticeable on women usually
Ultimately personality should always trump looks you should definitely go for it. Plus if you have the same personality, maybe you can explore some of your kinks as well which is an even bigger bonus.
>>34502133I don't really consider my attraction to bigger women a kink but I do like tummies, thighs/legs and asses so we could play into it. Just cause she's thin doesn't mean she can't sit on my lap/face.
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