How do I stop letting my autism prevent me from enjoying sex? Foreplay goes well but once the clothes come off my senses go into overload with the smells textures of body fluids, hair, wet skin touching etc.It gets bad enough that I lose my erection and can’t even stay hard enough for intercourse. Even when I masturbate I make sure that when I ejaculate it goes into a cloth or tissue so I can clean it up immediately after im done.Should I unironically try CBD or weed to get my body to chill out before sex?
>>34503258maybe you should get more drunk so you're too wasted to focus on stupid shit
>>34503735Isn’t whiskey dick a thing though
>>34503752i'm not familiar with that termwhat do you mean
>>34503760Apparently if you get drunk before sex it’s harder to stay hard or get hard
>>34503258This is a question for a medical professional. /adv/ doesn't know.
>>34503774i'm young so that's not my problem idk
>>34503258You have to develop a taste for the dirty stuff so it amplifies your hardon rather than killing it. It's something you can literally practice. Turn off the AC and exercise till you're a sweaty mess, and practice just being sweaty. Jerk off while sweaty and stinky. Jerk off without a tissue and make a mess of yourself. Desensitize yourself.Just remind yourself you won't be stuck like that forever. You can have a blast getting completely disgusting, then hop straight in the shower and wash it all away.Don't use drugs. Just gradual exposure/desensitization.
>>34503779I’m 34 so Iuckily I don’t have ED.>>34503783I guess this is the way, I think my sensitivity to smells and touch are keeping me from enjoying it. But If force myself in those situations it may get better, but I don’t really want to smell my own cum or smell fish so I get used to it.
>>34503791Just start small. Diving in all at once will overload you. Just pick one aspect to desensitize at a time, and do it gradually so it's more like small steps in that direction rather than forcing yourself. If you go too hard all at once you might just reinforce the idea that you can't handle it.
What about things that require a women, like a wet pussy, body smells, boob sweat etc? I feel like I will end up in the same place because I can’t densensitize myself to sex unless I have sex
>>34503900Best bet would be to let her know what you're dealing with. Who knows... she might get turned on by the idea of being the one to desensitize you.
>>34503258What you need to do is actually communicate for once: explain to the woman about the problems you have, and what it is that you need her to do to help with them. If you can't talk to her about this stuff, you shouldn't be fucking her.
>>34503258date a mean goth girl that will make you cum hands free totally limp and make you eat the cum after. exposure is the only way and if you can eroticize your abjection it will feel really good
