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What are some signs of being unlikable as a person? How do I make friends as an adult?
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>>34503959
>What are some signs of being unlikable as a person?
If you have to ask...
>How do I make friends as an adult?
Gain social skills, improve your looks (you will be treated better), smile, become knowledgeable on a variety of topics (don't need to be an expert just know a decent amount of info), repeated interaction with others (meetups, bars, etc.). Don't be afraid to plan/make the first move. Good luck.
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Your "anxiety" is the result of your hindbrain chugging through a petabyte of social information per second when out in public and correctly identifying that (You) are at the very bottom of the totem pole
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>>34503967
Christ this sounds impossible

>>34503973
Yeah I always get that feeling the rare times I go outside. I'm like a subhuman that people can see through and wondering what the fuck I'm doing among actual humans. It gets even worse if I try to talk and then get completely exposed
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>>34504737
You should be social anyway. The worst people on this planet will tell you that no one likes you. Let them eat shit and go make friends anyway.
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>>34503973
>at the very bottom of the totem pole
Show me a person who lives by that metric and I will show you a person with dependency issues.
Totem poles are for people who need validation from the unqualified.
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>>34503959
wow another ds player. want to make a world?
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>>34505543
I haven't played that game religiously since Winona was added. I should probably reinstall.
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>>34504865
Illiterate gorilla nigger award



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