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I'm not joking btw

I have an average dick (a little longer than western average, a little bit thinner on average than western average) and I'm going crazy about it

How are you supposed to even think about it when you know your partner would always prefer someone else and enjoy it far more? I know girls (and boys) like thicker cocks, even if its not a fully linear line it's still true that almost everyone prefers cocks that are a bit thicker than average and that they feel much better. It's not something like height or hair where there is no tangible benefit outside of aesthetic preference it's literally a tool for sex and some men have it much better than me and always will and any person I ever fuck would prefer to be fucked by it

How the the fuck am I supposed to be okay about it or just accept it without inherently feeling like I'm verifiably inferior to (at least half of) other men who would satisfy my girl much more than I ever could?

Every answer I ever got was a transparent cope based on a faulty premise of "what if the hung guy was an absolute low life turd, those with smaller dicks could potentially be better at least in some regard to him" which is obviously retarded hypothetical cope
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>>34505176
just buy the fucking pump with a guage and manual stretching skill issue
the getting bigger subreddit
hink's channel
peak male physique channel
stick to program get gains
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>>34505176
>How the the fuck am I supposed to be okay about it or just accept it without inherently feeling like I'm verifiably inferior to (at least half of) other men who would satisfy my girl much more than I ever could?
Go to therapy and deal with your self-worth issues. Walking around in life being afraid that everyone you interact with is secretly wishing they could be with someone who does/says/looks/feels better is crippling insecurity to the point of delusion. If you can't trust that the people around you are choosing you because they want to then the issue is with how much you value yourself, not how much others value you. There is no height, weight, dick size or bank account that will ever be big enough for you to just suddenly stop fearing abandonment and worthlessness. All of that shit is coming from inside of you somewhere. Figure it out.
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>>34505176
By the time a woman sees your penis, she has already decided whether she likes you, and that is NOT going to be the thing that changes her mind.
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>>34505201

I have a pump, there is a temporary boost due to increased blood flow and lymph but neither stretching nor increasing bloodflow with a pump can permanently increase the size of the tissue

it only carries serious risks of injury

>>34505289

The thing is, I have several female friends who admit they are size queens and are open about it, even admitting they cheated on their boyfriends with those who are bigger

and you can say they're just shitty people but they're just honest about it, most girls they talked to agree but prefer to lie

>>34505239

> If you can't trust that the people around you are choosing you because they want to then the issue is with how much you value yourself, not how much others value you

This is a great point honestly, there is something arrogant and disrespectful towards others in making their judgement for them and making a choice they are the ones supposed to make

if I respect others I ought to respect their choice whether it is for them to be with me or not
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>>34505176
What the fuck am I reading?
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>>34505176
Everything you know is bull. If you fags still showered together in front of the gym teachers, you’d know that. My dick is small according to the internet but there are vaginas that are way too small for it.
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>>34505176
Go the fuck outside and stop worrying about pointless bullshit.
>>34505371
Shitty girls hang out with other shitty girls. Real shocker.
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Stop watching porn.
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>>34505176
you are neurotic. You're being neurotic. Whenever you get thoughts like this just remember tell yourself that you're being retarded.
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>>34505176
who gives a fuck you retards are so insane
when someone loves you they're far more interested in the fact that they're being intimate with you than the minimal differences in how it physically feels

also i have a large dick and it causes her pain frequently. every woman is a size queen until they actually take one, i wish i was an inch shorter. stop being a retard, if you can fuck for at least 4 minutes you're fine
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>>34505176
>I have an average dick (a little longer than western average
>WAHHH WAHHH WAHHH
fuck off you neurotic retard. you're fine unless you're only interested in hookups/fwbs
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>>34505176
>you know your partner would always prefer someone else and enjoy it far more? I know girls (and boys) like thicker cocks, even if its not a fully linear line it's still true that almost everyone prefers cocks that are a bit thicker than average and that they feel much better. It's not something like height or hair where there is no tangible benefit outside of aesthetic preference it's literally a tool for sex and some men have it much better than me and always will and any person I ever fuck would prefer to be fucked by it
Absolutely none of that is true. My best friend left her previous boyfriend partly because his dick was too big. Her new bf is extremely average, and she literally won't shut about how much more wonderful the sex is with him.

Also consider the fact that women who have sex with women consistently report much higher levels of sexual satisfaction than women who have sex with men. How big do you think their partners' dicks are?
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>>34505176
>when you know your partner would [whatever]
the trick is to stop giving a fuck about what women want, period. you want pussy, you get some.
if she doesn't want to stick around afterwards, no problem, move onto the next woman.
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>>34505703
>How big do you think their partners' dicks are?

Dildos anon. Dildos.
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Because you’re reducing your identity to the size of your dick, which is a limiting and unproductive belief.

Your girl was drawn to your energy before she ever saw you naked. Unless you have a micropenis (and we can debate that too), it’s not going to be the death knell.

I’m dating a wonderful girl, and it’s totally possible she’s had incredible sex with someone else that took her breath away. But that’s in the past, and she’s with me for the connection we have overall. After that, all I care about is communicating and experimenting in bed so we can create something that is fun for both of us.
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>>34505703
>Also consider the fact that women who have sex with women consistently report much higher levels of sexual satisfaction than women who have sex with men. How big do you think their partners' dicks are?
this is a fantastic point. a lot of these retards don't seem to understand that there's so much more to sex than just the sensation you get from penetration



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