What are things I can talk about over the phone to my boyfriend in prison that would make me seem more cute and interesting ? I often feel like I lost a lot of my personality as I entered my 20s and got with him and I want to reverse that. He was my first irl boyfriend and because of that and the fact that he was never chronically online I feel like we missed out on something that I sort of experienced with others online before meeting him.Even though I’m heading int hag territory I feel like this is my last chance to basically give him the bpd, slice of life anime girl- acting, long distance relationship experience without the bpd part. But I haven’t been that type of girl/been around those types of girls since like 2015-2019 and I wish I knew how to get in that mindset again. When he calls me from prison it’s basically >him telling me how depressing it is there>me telling him about my day which maybe includes 1-2 interesting topics like a game I played or movie I watched but struggle to talk in detail about it bc of my adhd having gotten progressively worse>a lot of awkward silence With my old online circles I feel like I used to be able to easily find/talk about all these interesting and niche things and just have cute things to say in general and it made me interesting. I just want to be a cute interesting girl to someone one more time in my life and he only has 9 more months left. How do I be a cute interesting girl again?
Why don't you date a nice, law abiding guy instead? Why do you reward evil? Because you're a foid and by default evil?
>>34505708is he black or brown? this is important information.
>>34505719No >>34505711Nobody’s perfect. I find that most men are flawed in similar ways and im not going to go sit and hop on a bunch of dicks and find someone. I think our coincidences and the way he makes me feel at times makes him my soulmate
Bros should I become a violent untermensch piece of shit to attract women?
>>34505918No
>>34505923why not tho
>>34505708>I feel like this is my last chance to basically give him the bpd, slice of life anime girl- acting, long distance relationship experience without the bpd part.This is a fairly unrealistic archetype. Wouldn't it be more effective to emphasize your good characteristics than to produce ones that aren't out of thin air?>>34505711>Why do you reward evil?We don't know why OP is dating her boyfriend nor why he's in prison. It's good not to make assumptions.>>34505918Most people don't find people in prison attractive, but there are women who'd send love letters to serial killers. Preying on the mentally ill isn't exactly moral, though.
>>34505996yeah I don't want to be a bad person I just know you have to adapt to demand nowadays. I was mostly being tongue in cheek about it.sorry to anyone in the thread who might've been offended by it.
>>34506021>yeah I don't want to be a bad personGood to hear!>sorry to anyone in the thread who might've been offended by it.There's no need to apologize. Depraved comments are normal on this site, and yours is relatively tame.