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>talking to girl
>send pics
>repeatedly compliments me like crazy
>beyond the usual "you're cute", says I'm way out of her league
>repeatedly tells me she doesn't believe that I'm a khhv
>communicates really slowly, constantly ignores my messages
>apologizes for being slow and shows a ton of interest when we do talk
>blocks me out of nowhere
>readds me
>blocks me again
this exact pattern has occurred with two different girls in the past month
what's going on here and what do I do about it
I honestly don't think I'm that attractive, like I'm maybe a 6/10, so I'm inclined to believe that they're being dishonest and that there's something weird going on
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>>34506376
My lust died the second I wrote the average feminine nature on paper and stratified it according to its moral nature. I am now convinced that the only thing you are supposed to do as a soul and as a man is to wrestle your own flesh into submission, find God and develop a prosperous and altruistic relationship with our creator in order to escape this prison. 99% of women are half humans with no souls, everything they strive for and enjoy is ultimately evil in its nature. The very core of femininity is absolute evil that seeks to devour good men with the same glee and joy you'd get from stomping out some dorky kids sand castle.

Once I realized why women are the way they are, it's like I've finally been enlightened as to why hermit monks become hermits in the first place. It's all a lie, its all a joke. This planet is a prison, women are archons who genuinely don't give a fuck about anything but they have to pretend to have interests beyond themselves just so men don't become suspicious and notice the huge disparity in the nature of each gender. It's not a complimentary nature, it's completely one-sided and parasitic. The entire role of women is to entrap a mans life force and pull another soul into this false reality incarnation trap. That's all they were designed to do. Satan takes a hold of their hivemind vessels with comedic ease and no resistance. They are all beyond corrupt, they fall apart once a month and endure pain unless they fulfill their ill-natured task. There is nothing in this world worth striving for besides Gods love. There is absolutely NOTHING in this world that is worth your place in heaven.
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>>34506376
So here's the thing, two things:
1) talking shit about yourself to a girl doesn't help you, keep it to just telling the truth but don't try to convince them of something they percieve as bad. You're not a Twitter thread, you're a person. You don't want to lower expectations by talking yourself down. Just say the truth.
2) girls on dating apps have so much choice so some of them will happily discard you like you're nothing. It is for this reason that you work towards a meeting and a maybe also a pre meeting call as fast as possible - the time wasters and the trash will take itself out faster.

Don't be afraid of "losing" them, speak out your mind! It wasn't meant to be if they go away or don't want you. Hail Mary's are so much easier on text. So ask them out!

I've got experience with this exact thing in recent months, so you're not alone, just work from the mindset of "there will always be more", and it's true, really believe it.
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Women despise male insecurity/weakness so much they will instantly ghost a man (You) they thought was super hot over it. If a woman fawns over you just accept it and dont ramble on about how much of a virgin you are
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>>34506423
>talking shit about yourself to a girl doesn't help you
yeah I make sure to not do this. I mean, I'm honest about the fact that I'm a khhv, but I'm not insecure about it
>dating apps
sorry I should have been clear, I met these women on soc. So it's a little bit different
>and a maybe also a pre meeting call as fast as possible
both of these girls were hesitant to call, so maybe that's a sign of them being time wasters?
>>34506426
I honestly don't think I acted insecure
>If a woman fawns over you just accept it and dont ramble on about how much of a virgin you are
I only brought it up when asked or when when accused of being a fuckboy
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>>34506447
Soc is the worst place on earth. They'll literally act rude and remove you because they didn't like the way you wrote "hi", or, they'll get into a short term relationship with you and cum a little bit before moving on to the next guy.
Just don't do it, I've rarely met a good girl on soc, mostly bpd's, and while it's exciting, it gets you questioning your life. Use dating apps unironically, feel the burn. It's harder but the payoff is more real than anything soc could give you. I am speaking as a guy who was very successful on soc in terms of cumming with girls, but it never holds to become something more because these girls are fucked up
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>>34506492
>Use dating apps unironically, feel the burn
but I'm not interested in normie women
I've even tried with slightly more normie leaning 4chan women, and I just can't develop feelings for them
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>>34506494
You're generalizing, there is no them, there is one Sophie, Megan, Laura, Natalie, just for you. They will be special to you when you find them. Don't waste your years away looking for girls on soc, you will say later (waaay later) - why didn't I get in better shape and opened dating apps earlier?
That's where I am now. I'm gooner maxxing irl, got a short term relationship from it, and dates set up, I feel that my stable GF is just around the corner. Do the IRL route.
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>>34506522
>You're generalizing
I mean yeah, but there's nothing wrong with generalizations
it's like saying "I don't want to date women from laos because they probably don't speak english". That's a generalization, but it's also true
just like it's unlikely that I'll find a laotian woman that speaks english, it's unlikely that I'll find a woman I relate to on tinder
>why didn't I get in better shape
I'm fit
>I'm gooner maxxing irl
I don't want to goon, I want love
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>>34506540
Me too brother, and you can find love and more on the apps. There's nothing wrong with generalizing, I'm just saying that dating apps are a channel to dating. They are a channel that works, proven. Will you find the perfect woman? Not right away that's for sure. But you can find the one who is for you, and it is going to be way, way better than soc on average. If you're already fit, picturemaxx and go for it.

Also
>Looking for love on soc
Don't
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>>34506447
>I honestly don't think I acted insecure
The woman you repelled disagrees apparently, otherwise she'd be fucking you
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>>34506402
In greek mythology, women were created as punishment, which makes more sense than the genesis narrative imo



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