hi... femanon here and im currently taking a few classes related to a medical science. its a pretty small program, only 16 or so of us, and I am the youngest (20) of the group. I've always been a little nerdy and quiet, but the group I'm with has been really sweet and nice to me. Particularly, the other youngest (also 20) classmate of mine is really nice, I am kind of a femcel at heart and haven't dated or flirted before (autistic)... he likes a few things i like (final fantasy, comics, anime) and its really easy to talk to him in a group, but when its just us I kind of freeze up and struggle to talk to him. I like him, and really would like to get closer to him, I think I struggle to talk alone because hes relatively more attractive than me and I struggle with insecurities. He likes talking to me about nerdy interests because everyone in our class is older/has little kids, so I dont think he dislikes me or anything... I just struggle talking to him alone. Any tips on how to get him to notice me more?? Or what guys want to hear from girls?? I was thinking about inviting him to a con near us, but I don't want to seem overly desperate or creepy... thx :^)
you won't, i think you should do first move. and being confident, knowing that you're pretty, is what really make you pretty,
>>34507155guys are a mixed bag. we have a lot of different archetypes. theres not really a universal rule when it comes to what interests us.however, for most normal and mentally sane dudes, we have the utmost respect for women who are direct. if you quite literally verbatim say "would you like to go on a date wtih me" theres a high likelihood most normal men would say yes. Simply because we know women would never do that, because they see it as beneath them. so to a man's perspective, a woman who's willing to see us as equals is very worthy of respect. the only language men know at the end of the day is sacrifice, and we can appreciate when women make sacrifices for us.
>>34507155>hi... femanon hereYou will never be a woman.
>>34507171Saaaarr do first move saar
>>34507155>Any tips on how to get him to notice me more??Grab him by the penis
1. Say hi2. Ask him about something he's good at and make noises that he can interpret as his expertise showing.3. Drop that you're down to hang out sometime before leaving.
>>34507171indian alert
>>34507155There's quite a good chance that he is interested in you, but that because you're so quiet and awkward when the two of you are alone, he assumes you're not interested in him. So your problem is probably not to get him to like you, your problem is to get him to understand that you like him. Honestly, just ask him out. I can't promise he'll say yes, but it's very unusual for a man to feel awkward about a woman being attracted to him, so even if he's not interested, he won't want to stop talking to your. (The other way round is very different: if a guy asks out a woman who isn't interested, this is likely to be awkward at best, and at worst actually scary for her).
