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I'm a girl who is 1.64m tall and weighs 53kg, but lately many people have been calling me fat and commenting on the size of my thighs. I think I have an appropriate weight for my height, but this is affecting me a lot and I can't eat properly without feeling guilty, mainly because these judgments come from people I see every day. This has been making me feel very bad.
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Show bob
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Your dimensions sound fine, I have a hard time believing someone would call you fat.
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>>34508831
>man
>168cm
>67kg
Don't worry about it, your BMI is normal. People will always try to bother you for some reason, and when there's no reason, they simply invent one. Just ignore them or report them.
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>>34508886

It's kind of hard to ignore my family and friends.
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Have you tried posting your body on /soc/ for comments?
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>>34508831
You're not fat, you shouldn't lose weight.
The people who are saying this are fked up, set a boundary with them.
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>>34508831
come the fuck on
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>>34508889
You can't really escape siblings who tease you mercilessly about non-issues, but you can cut out friends who bully or demean you.
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>>34508831
No, what you should do is save up money for a liposuction. I'm of similar height and weight but all my fat is stored in my thighs i.e. I'm pretty flat and have stick thin arms but my thighs are relatively big, hence my body proportions are off.
Do NOT starve yourself, focus on fixing your proportions. Eat happily (and healthily) and work hard to earn money if you really want to improve things. Also, the liposuction should be minor removal with the purpose to sculpt your thighs into a more flattering silhouette. Not anything drastic.
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>>34508831
How big are the tits
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>>34509106

Although it's a silly question, the last time I measured, my bust was 92 cm.
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>>34508912

I might post later, I'm not home right now.
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Lose 3 kilos so that your weight ends in a multiple of 10.
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>>34509091
>save up money for a liposuction
worst advice itt

>I can't eat properly without feeling guilty
you should eat healthy regardless of your weight/people's opinion. do you? focus on dodging junk food, do cardio, you'll feel good no matter what.
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>>34508831
God I love meaty thighs. Lord have mercy.
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>>34509149
Is that big? It sounds like a lot, but i have no idea.
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>>34508831
I would argue it would be better for a woman to do the opposite of what society asks her to do in order to be seen as "more attractive" since the better you look, the more people are willing to hurt you
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>>34510037
what a crazy thing to say
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I have no context for if you're actually overweight, a lot of anons are saying you aren't, but I find that simply tracking my calorie intake helps a lot to limit overeating even without going out of my way to change my diet, just because it forces me to be mindful of how much and when I am eating.

I use myfitnesspal but it keeps getting worse and worse over time (EX barcode scanning is now a paid feature and they ruined the UI in the mobile app recently) so I'd also look at alternatives
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yes, you are fat, replace that fat into muscles
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>>34508831
>many people have been calling me fat
do you want to fuck them?
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>>34508831
"I'm a girl. I'm wearing girls clothes and I'm taking pills to turn me into a girl.
And now I'm growing breasts!
When did my penis fall off and now I have a pussy?
It used to be I had a cock, and I could stand up when I pissed.
Not anymore, not if the democrats have their way.
What is going on?
Imagine you're peeing and your penis falls off and then you have to sit down to finish the pee, sounds crazy? Nope. It's real. Happened to me this morning.
Don't believe me? Take a look"
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>>34508831
I think 53 is good for a woman of your height
now, maybe you have 0 muscle mass so maybe even if you're well into your ideal weight it looks not as flattering as it could be
I would recommend doing more exercises
I weighted 47kg when i was a teen (I'm 1,65) and I didn't look malnourished
I weight close to 70kgs now, lol, so I'm not one to criticize
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>>34508831
I would cum inside of you so much. I wish I had a thin girl

Or a girl at all

>>34509254
PLEASE link to the thread when you make it, thank you kindly.
My nut, my moment of pleasure, will give you the ultimate validation that you are wanted. And I'm a good looking guy, I just have severe avoidance loop but when I'm outside everyone's friendly and wants to make friends with me, I'm just in a constant avoidance loop. If I actually manage to get a beautiful gf like you though, I would literally make sure no period of 24 hours go by without your pussy looking like a bulldogs mouth flaps after it ate a bowl of mayonnaise - drooling, lightly foaming, and white bits stuck to the insides and ends of the soft parts.
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>>34508831
Don't even have to look at BMI charts and things to know your weight is healthy, a lot of women around me are around the same height and weight, some perhaps just a tiny bit heavier, and they look skinny.

To add onto that, I am a guy who's around 20 cm taller than you, and I weigh less than you do, I've only really recieved comments about it on rare ocassions, but always something along the lines of "watch your weight" which are warranted. People are stupid like that, and I guess maybe being fat is more noticable than being severely thin unless we're talking about malnourishment/malnutrition.

You're fine. You probably only have thick thighs and that's it. I'm no professional but I would advise against losing weight, even moreso about doing something stupid like starving yourself. If you REALLY wanna do something about your body and are desperate for it, just do some casual exercise. You don't need to be a gymrat that's lifting 8 hours a day. Just walking a bit could help.
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Try to focus on your health rather than the number on the scale. That number is fine, just to be clear. But you should think about whether you have enough energy to get through the day, whether you're eating enough healthy fats/protein/fiber/carbs/calories, and how quickly you recover after being out of breath.

You're never going to be thin enough for some people. You need to decide where you're thin enough for YOU or else you'll always be worrying.

>>34509254
Don't do that.
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You are at the edge of chubby so might be good to slim down some



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