My wife pisses me offEvery time she utters even a word I instantly get madIf I wake up and she isn't already gone at work, the whole day is ruinedI would rather stay extra hours at work than get home to see her.It's not any of her fault particularly, I've always hated people generally speaking and never could stand their presence. I got married exactly for the reason to learn how to love and live with others, otherwise I would have simply gone abroad and never tell anyone and disappear completely from everyone I know. Any advice for me?
I hope this is bait>hmmm im going to a marry a woman to see if I can learn to love and live with other peopleThat's what dating is for. Why would you marry a woman if you dont love her? You sound like you are asexual or possibly a psychopath. Divorce her so she can be with somebody that loves her.
>>34509042I said it wasn't any of her fault, I'm probably pretty hateful towards anyone if I spend enough time with them and I actually want to change that about myself. I don't want to be such a selfish prick, I want to enjoy spending time with others, I don't want to be such a hateful little shit.It's not bait
>>34508965Anon, I understand this sorta. But I loved my wife when we first met. 7 years later and I really don't want to be around her anymore.Unfortunately, this seems to be natural. From my understanding, most relationships do not last till death and it's actually quite rare for a couple to remain happy forever. It's quite sad cause I still remember all the happy moments we've had.With that, I would recommend trying couple's counseling. It's not really working for me, but maybe it'll help with yours. Besides that, divorce would be the next best thing. This should be your last resort, but it's better than staying in a relationship that makes you miserable.
>>34508965kids or no kids?
>>34508965If she's the independent type, you don't need to spend much time with her. Just occasionaly pretend to care about her and have sex with her. Otherwise be in a seperate room.
>>34508965WHY DID YOU MARRY HER?WHY DO YOU NIGGERS DO THIS AND THEN CRY ABOUT IT ONLINE? WE TOLD YOU NOT TO FALL FOR THE MEME AND YOU DO IT ANYWAY.
>>34508965You’ll survive. Hate can last forever. Me and mine have been hating for the longest. Now we just do our own thing and keep out of each other’s way.
>>34511139It's because exactly that. It's a meme, a very potent one, it sticks around and infects every man's mind. Every man instinctively wants to do good and settle down and build a life, father children and be proud of your own family.It's only unfortunate that to be able to even do that, you're supposed to suffer the presence of other people at least for a while.>>34511693Yeah, that's what I thought. I'll thug that shit until I die because I'm unironically too indoctrinated to cheat on my wife or divorce.>>34509632Yeah, I get feeling some sort of love in the beginning. In the end it made me realize that I probably never will love anyone in this life. Not really.>>34509741No kids yet but we plan to and want to. Not sure how that's gonna work since sex for me with her is a chore, I'd rather go on a walk.
>>34512667Don't feel bad about it. In my opinion, romantic love is only temporary. There are so many people in the world, but finding someone that is truly unique enough to make you happy all the time is not realistic. Which is why I think marriage is not a good idea and can really fuck you up. The cons of it outweigh the pros.From what I'm hearing you need to leave this relationship. I don't know how, but you are clearly miserable and will only become more miserable and resentful as time wears on you This will make her resentful of you, and the cycle continues. If you have any desire to try to fix it, try couple counseling. Maybe it's a fixable problem? But if not, leave. Life is too short to deal with such retardation.
To continue being in love is a decision we make. For me personally i can relate with wanting your own space. I don’t like when i’m being bothered too. When i’m with my boyfriend for too long i get a bit irritated because i need my space and feel distracted from my life and work. But when i lived alone it got lonely and sad so maybe that’s the case with you too. At least at some point of living alone you will notice that you need some company. Would recommend you to do romantic things together and actually become friends.
>>34508965>>34509093jesus christ man you sound like a wifebeaterpeople have to pray for your wife, you seem to make her life hell
I am so grateful for my situation. GF lives an hour away. She has her own house and is relatively independent and happy with how things are. We see eachother most weekends. We are always excited to get together. Then for the rest of the time I can focus on my own life and not have to deal with the retardation and neuroticism of a woman in my day to day work week.
>>34513408Give it a few years.I don't think your situation will be so happy by then.
>>34513334I'm too honorable to hit any woman, I'd never do it.They're not worth the calorie expenditure
