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Any tips or advice for a socially retarded NEET trying to SEAmax for the first time? Do I honestly have a chance as a mid 21y/o 5'11 average build white incel?

Which SEA country the best choice?
Do you meet online first or just find someone in person?
How much of the native language should you learn first?
Where do you find people that speak English?
What sites are you using?

Just sex would be fine, but I'm really looking for a committed relationship. Success and horror stories from anons who tried this are appreciated
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>>34510329
>do you meet online?
If this is your question then it seems you aren't comfortable (let alone proficient) with meeting new people in real life situations. Southeast Asia may be a good place to belatedly learn such things, but you need to have realistic expectations.
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>>34510505
Yeah talking to other people is a struggle. I'm hoping exposure to people and practice will help.
I'm wondering with SEA country specifically has the highest success rate (probably Thailand from my understanding). I just don't know where you find English speakers over there?
Do you just cold approach people or use a dating app once you land?
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>>34510329
Are you sure you won't get sea-sick?
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>>34511931
kek
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>>34510329
My friend traveled to SEA and he bragged about having sex. Then he traveled to Austria and he couldn't have sex.
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>>34513545
My country's is very easy to immigrate to, so my goal would be to find a woman who wants to eventually marry and move in with me like. A friend managed to do with someone he met in Thailand
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>>34513545
>goes to eurocuck country
>cant get bitches
Yeah, I wonder why anon
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>>34510329
A couple things
I wouldn't recommend SEAmaxxing if you're a neet or socially retarded. You are moving to a country with a completely different culture and set of social norms to what you are used to. If you can't crack it in your own society (and I don't mean be popular but at least be able to socialize on a basic level) that you are most familiar with then it's going to be even more difficult somewhere else.
Second, if you're a 21 year old neet then how are you going to afford any of this? Most SEAmaxxers do so once they have made a decent amount of cash in the West because the exchange rate is extremely favorable for you. You didn't talk about yoyr financial situation so maybe you have rich parents but otherwise it's not a very wise move. You would need to get a visa to be eligible to work in the country you are going to and it would be difficult for a 21 year old neet with no qualifications or work history.
Third, SEAmaxxing and geomaxxing in general is kind of oversaturated now because the amount of men doing it over the past decade has significantly increased. It used to be that if you were an average White dude in SEA that you would struggle to not be getting laid daily. The standards are now higher. Still much easier than the West mind you but it's no longer the free for all it once was.
Fourth, if you want an actual relationship you need to be aware of a few things.Many women are solely going to be with you because they believe you to be a rich westerner and they want your money, or they think they are going to get a green card by staying with you. If that's OK with you then whatever. Issue with that is that SEA girls will get "corrupted" (not that their nature is different fundamentally though) if bring them to Western countries for long enough. So you essentially have to go in with the expectation that you can never take her elsewhere. Also keep in mind SEA is getting feminized too.
>t. seamaxxed for a few years in my mid-late 20s



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