she did shady shit throughout the relationship and i pretty much have fallen out of love by death of a thousand cuts, how do i end things least painfully?talked to ex behind my back of 5 years, tons o male friends, went pole dancing class with some dude from bumble 3 months into dating... etc etc.I overlooked this shit due to lust but now realize long term i cant be with this person.she has a bunch of shit at my apartmnetHelp
>>34510607>went poledancing class with some dudeYou getting jealous of a literal faggot?Just tell her you wanna break up, save your and her time. Anyways she's some kid. Question yourself what would she be like when she's 30.
Men almost never break up with women and its rational. A woman has to be really fucking shitty to be a net negative in your life. Because her vagina alone has so much value. Personally if I want to be free of a woman I will start to just push to get as much out of her as possible. Start making crazy demands. Make her wake you up with a blowjob every day. Make her give you her money. You might as well just squeeze every drop out of her that you can and she will either leave you or maybe she meets all your demands and you actually start to love her again.
>>34510624man I dont like women either but you might be a psychopath. you even make me feel like a psychopath for disliking them.
>>34510629This, wtf anon. If I hate a woman I just bury her alive, job done. None of this weird manipulative shit
Detach emotionaly and just use her as a masturbation tool until you find someone else. Basically break up with her but font tell her and if she declines sex just leave and go home
>>34510680I did that months ago and I'm also kinda over it
>>34510624I honestly just told my last ex I was done. She made some snarky comment that just solidified she wasn't the woman for me, so I just told her via text that I was just dropping her. She pulled the typical "lets talk about it", but I told her I no longer had to listen to her request and got rid of all her shit, socials, etc. Its that easy if you're done with a bitch, be a fucking man and tell her its over instead of playing passive aggressive fag games.
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>>34510607I don't know, if I was in your place, I would just break up with her, if I was a petty person, I would get a side piece, wait till my girlfriend was old and barren, and break up with her, lol
>>34510607>still talks to exes>tons of male friendsJust get out. Hate to do the defacto "break up with them" advice, but both of these are huge red flags.Women who mostly have male friends, especially if they do things with them that you would consider a date if it was you and some girl (schedule and get drinks, dinner, or brunch together 1v1), are a fucking nightmare.They know what they're doing. They're not going to admit it though, they're just going to gaslight you into believing you're sexist/jealous/controlling, and the longer you stick around, the more successfully they'll do it, only for it to wreck you that much harder when it inevitably doesn't work out.Especially if you've talked or argued about it and she's claiming it's just platonic. That means she's setting the precedent that she will never stop going on what are effectively dates with other men. It's one thing if you've only been seeing each other a few months and haven't laid everything out there. Maybe then she'll drop the male friends once she's serious about your relationship. But if you've explicitly talked about it and she insists it's normal, she's a cheater.
>>34510607If you're not seeing eye to eye anymore and things are strained, I think I'd just to talk to her straight. Something like>hey (name). Listen, I appreciate the time we spent together, but I'm just not feeling it anymore. I think it'd be best for the both of us if we just split.If she asks why, then you can go into detail. Just say what bothered you and be done with it.
>>34514944>But if you've explicitly talked about it and she insists it's normal, she's a cheater.or atleast full of shit, hell this was the main reason why I left my ex. Other shit could have been worked out over time but she never came correct on that "he's just a friend" horseshit to the point I just stopped trusting her. I never went looking for trouble to confirm it, but if your bitch gives you honest pushback on having other males that aren't family in her life? Yeah that's a flag and I dont give a fuck what head in the sand bitch or orbiting faggot gusing as a friend says to debate it. Half the time they even know the male friend wants to fuck but because he's literally a portable battery of attention, she'll keep him around and give you hell. Lesson learned though, if any future woman gives me that "I cant let him go, he's been my bestie since XYZ" she's gone, dont care how hot or appealing she is.
