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I started dating because of my desire to have children, but I like hanging out with her as well. We're both Christians, and I did say I believe in waiting until marriage, but I do not intend to have sex even within marriage. I am unsure of how important this is to women -- I always hear about the guy complaining about how their wife never wants sex, so I am hopeful this could be the situation I find myself in.

But it could also be deceptive to not mention outright that I don't experience sexual attraction (never have). Do I just keep this to myself?
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>>34510768
I personally deem it an important part of your life and something that will affect your relationship, so yes, I'd tell her.

It might be tough to deal with if it's a deal breaker for her, but someone should be okay with dating you as a whole, not just parts of you, and she is within her right to want to be loved by someone who desires her sexually and you are within yours to want a sex-free relationship, neither is wrong.
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>>34510768
Just fuck her for fuck's sake
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lol OP is a fag
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>>34510768
I'll fuck her for you.
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It'll be so funny if you keep it a secret until you get married. She'll get a divorce or fall for another guy after ending up with a bodycount of 1.
Get rekt bitch.
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>>34510768
If you have a single shred of decency or honesty in your body, you'll tell her.

If it turns out she's okay with it, you've lost absolutely nothing by being honest. If she's not okay with it, and you don't say anything, then you've tricked her into an unhappy marriage by lying to her. How is that a Christian thing to do?
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>>34510768
Dumb homo wants to suck off men the thread
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>>34510768
My lust died the second I wrote the average feminine nature on paper and stratified it according to its moral nature. I am now convinced that the only thing you are supposed to do as a soul and as a man is to wrestle your own flesh into submission, find God and develop a prosperous and altruistic relationship with our creator in order to escape this prison. 99% of women are half humans with no souls, everything they strive for and enjoy is ultimately evil in its nature. The very core of femininity is absolute evil that seeks to devour good men with the same glee and joy you'd get from stomping out some dorky kids sand castle.

Once I realized why women are the way they are, it's like I've finally been enlightened as to why hermit monks become hermits in the first place. It's all a lie, its all a joke. This planet is a prison, women are archons who genuinely don't give a fuck about anything but they have to pretend to have interests beyond themselves just so men don't become suspicious and notice the huge disparity in the nature of each gender. It's not a complimentary nature, it's completely one-sided and parasitic. The entire role of women is to entrap a mans life force and pull another soul into this false reality incarnation trap. That's all they were designed to do. Satan takes a hold of their hivemind vessels with comedic ease and no resistance. They are all beyond corrupt, they fall apart once a month and endure pain unless they fulfill their ill-natured task. There is nothing in this world worth striving for besides Gods love. There is absolutely NOTHING in this world that is worth your place in heaven.
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>>34510768
Just a reminder to no sex before marriage fags that this could secretly be what your partner is planning for your lol
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>>34511814
this is what no pussy does to a mf
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>>34510768
Yes you have to tell them. It's in the same category as any major variation from "normal" that can have an impact on your partner.
>I'm schizophrenic
>I carry the gene for some terrible illness
>I need to be shit on to be sexually satisfied
>I am asexual and will never be able to provide a satisfying sexual life
All examples of things that aren't inherently evil or wrong but should be figured out well before marriage.
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