Whenever I see a woman I immediately think of her being fucked by chad (tall, high iq, high status, kind, better lover, well endowed, broad shoulders) and it makes it hard for me to talk to her, in addition to causing intense feelings of anger at myself and the world (being a 24 year old KHHV). How can I put an end to this?
>>34511583The more other things in life have gone well for me, the less focused I have been on women, but the final breakthrough was the realization that I didn't actually want the women, I just wanted the identity of being a guy who didn't get rejected. That made me realize that not all women are interesting to me, so I stopped caring about a lot of them. Try to ask yourself who you are and what you want out of life that isn't non-rejection, then strive towards that which is in your control.
>>34511583Become the chad you can be proud of. Start lifting and working on your career. Find a new hobby. And don't be afraid of dumping women who don't meet your standards instead of the other way around. It's going to take a year or 2 of your life if you put your mind to it.Also take some time for psychological help. Read about learned helplessness and cognitive behavioral therapy. The fix is simple, the hard part is sticking to it for years on end.
>>34511646Lifting has nothing to do with being a chad
>>34511802Comically gay
>>34511583Watch less porn. Please, less porn. You can still do what ever you like just less porn it's rotting your brain
>>34511583So you're constantly thinking about>tall, high iq, high status, kind, better lover, well endowed, broad shoulderschads.You're a faggot
>>34511583Yeah I can't picture them genuinely getting attracted to me even though I think I'm decent looking. That's why romance stories/subplots feel immersion breaking for me.
>>34511849I don't watch porn anymore because the sight of hot tall men with big dicks conquering cute girls in the prime of their lives only depresses me.
>>34511583>Whenever I see a woman I immediately think of her being fucked by chad (tall, high iq, high status, kind, better lover, well endowed, broad shoulders) and it makes it hardI'll bet it does.
>>34512501I actually don't become aroused from it at all, hence why I am finished with porn and have psychological ED >>34512340
>>34511583Holy cuckerinos, OPStop thinking that turning into chad thundercock will land you woman en masse, it's fucking dumb. You're being a pathetic loser, you're coping so hard about failed romantic prospects and feeling insecure that you envisioned that looks is the only determining factor of success because you think that's whats wrong. And yes, looks kinda matter, but what's wrong here (among other things) is that loser mentality of yours were you compare to other people and blame le society for it.Improve. Not for women, not for praise, not for anyone else, but for you. For the sole purpose of stopoing yourself from putting the concept of chad in an unreachable pedestal and get your panties in a knot because of it and feeling comfortable in your own skin.If you gotta start from absolute rock bottom, learn how to be a functional human being by yourself, then focus on looking presentable and clean/hygenic, then learn that the world is filled with fucking idiots like you and me and the rest of the basement dwellers on here that are trying to live normal lives and that we all have our issues and shortcomings because of it, then focus on shit you like, like hobbies and things you're passionate about, then, after (hopefully) having the faintest hint of mental stability and a personality that you can show people, you try and develop social skills to keep people around. And if throughout all of that you're thinking "Man, le women will love this!" congrats, you failed.
