In high school there was a girl that liked me since she was in school. Our schools played the same sport and we came to know each other. She befriended my school class mate and she tried to set us up for years. She had a couple brief relationships, one ended after her ex boyfriend argued with a guy she allegedly cheated with. Finally, in year 12 I gave her chance and we got to know each other. She was great, I thought, felt bad for overlooking her and chasing some other girl. Her parents had gone to a matchmaker and met with a family to get a husband for arranged marriage. She introduced him as a "friend" who visited during school and that turned out was the arranged husband. She told me her parents are forcing her and I felt for her. She was texting him, wanted to have him there with us for her parents sake, promising to just play it cool and to "go along". Even her cousin showed up to argue with me. He would start arguments and when he jammed a ring on her one day, I hit him and chased him out of the high school. Told the girl it was over, she cried. My ex-girlfriend told her to "make him jealous", she got very touch with the guys and they raped her. She had the arranged marriage and three kids. Now, her family is upset is miserable and demanded me to get back with her, pay her divorce fees and make her happy like I did. Her family had been keeping tabs on me as well and had tried to get me fired from a previous job.
>>34512371Where in the world is this happening? It doesn't matter. You owe her little and her family nothing. Tell them to go to hell, and get on with your life.
>>34512485>Where in the world is this happening? Australia. I am European, she is Chinese>It doesn't matter. You owe her little and her family nothing. Tell them to go to hell, and get on with your life.I said a lot of things about her and the way her family arranged the marriage. Her cousins told me to think about an open relationship with her as I was "controlling". I had a fight with one of her male cousins after he said inappropriate comments about my mum (she is suffering from mental illness), blaming me for his married cousin's suicidal tendencies, "abandoning" her and told my colleagues he wanted to punch me. Well, he was lying on the floor for half a minute and only got on his hips after two colleagues helped him up. He went to the police to press charges and my charges were dropped in court. Last year at the local shopping centre her arranged husband glared at me while he was with her. I didnt recognise them at first, I looked at him and he scurried. Leaving his wife and daughter behind. She looked at me like she was about to cry and when she and her daughter caught up with him he slapped her.He was supposed to be from a "rich" family according to the matchmaker and his family. He was not he was just very average and she worked (maybe still does) as a prostitute while his family was demanding money from her family to support them.I told her years ago that it would happen like that.
>>34512675Are you really Australian? Your english is awful
Posted It Again Award
>>34512753Thanks>>34512983It has been on my mind a lot. Not easy to bring it up with people. I might have posted it again elsewhere.
>>34512753>Are you really Australian?>>34512371>arranged marriageWell, how Australian of them.
>>34513747Nothing says Australian like arranged marriage and mail order brides.... well - no. There are some really messed up stories of arranged marriages even in Australia. The girl maybe thought that it was just a day in the sun with me so to speak and the arranged marriage was way to for her to be set for life as well as have much needed favour with her parents. Like I mentioned previously, she did sex work by obligation to support the husband while her family was supporting him and his side of the family too. Her side of the family is trying to rekindle feelings and pleaded me to take her back as nothing is making her happy. They thought the arranged marriage would bring her true happiness but it brought her true misery and abuse which is really sad. I made her happy and they took that away from her permanently. I done everything I could to get that girl out that arranged marriage debacle. She was just going along with it and making sure not to hurt his feelings in any way. Young girl like that was threatened with being disowned and her own parents threatening her that they would kill themselves. Still, you tell me about "abandoning" her and being blamed for her misery and abuse. It is silly.
Fucking chinks manTell her she is worthless since she got raped and extra worthless since she had 3 kids with someone elseThese dumb fuck stinky slanty eyed devils don't realize women are nothing but breeding machines and this one is already too high mileage
>>34512753Def not a White Australian LOL
>>34517984I called her every name in the book at the time. I specifically told her to avoid my ex-girlfriend because she is a headcase. She thought that if I felt jealous, on the advice of the headcase ex-girlfriend, I would come back to her - no. They set her up for failure, headcase ex-girlfriend did not want another girl being with me. Her family, among other ways of coercing and threatening her, told her that if she stayed with me that my family would make her into a prostitute and ask her family for money. Ironically, she worked as prostitute while being married in her arranged marriage and her family had to give money to him and his side of the family. They ruined her happiness, she got gang raped, became a prostitute (even to the rapists, another story) and bore three kids to someone else. Now, her family expects me to take her back after all that, make her family and pay divorce fees as bride price. They even tried to get me fired from a previous job. I told them if they had someone in their family that is unmarried they can set me up with them. They told me that they are reserving an unmarried one for others because she is a lawyer.I suspect the Chinese girl had contact with my dad in private. He really respected her and was very angry and sad about what happened to her. Its not easy to tell that to people I know, including family. It does seem rather much for them to handle, I think. >>34517984Hey!
>>34512371This is why we need to close the borders and stop all H1Bs.
>wack thirdie shit>european>in australia>repostthis is a psyop to make me really angry
post a picture of your hand with a timestamp. I need to see if you are a third worlder or a white cuck. Also tell me if you are a cow shit eating hindu, muslim beheader or a cross on cock dangling shithead.You all have such fucked up stories here sometimes I wonder if suicide hotlines should actually call you all instead of you all calling them.
>>34518264Speaking of boarders, some of the gangrapists were rapefugees from the wars in the 1990's (NATO lead) and the rest were other teens.Her family, if I remember correctly, is from Shanghai and the people from there are not well regarded by the rest of China - regional differences and mannerisms to name two. The events and arranged marriage has definitely taken a toll on her. Before they were married the arranged husband to be got plastic surgery and she was impressed by his "new look". Her side of the family believed that she would be truly happy and the arranged marriage was for her future, turns out she is truly miserable and sad instead and her husband even hits her in public. Her family miss her smile and her suffering really affected them. A lot has been said and if I remember well they rather she had committed suicide instead of having a life of such suffering. So, they thought to have me return and make her happy by setting me up with her. She has a "round face" too and they are considered self-destructive in China (depending on sources as well).Her male cousin told some girl in the building that I was getting close to that I had a wife and kid at home and that we should only be friends. I know that because she asked me one day if I had a wife and kid at home to which I said no because I did not.>>34518292It could have been a love story. Several people felt angry, sad and sorry for her. The rest of her community bitterly accepted it as part of the culture, at the same time, they distanced themselves from her family aside for a few people. My dad said one day to " I do not hate her, I hate what they did to her". I really was not in a good state. Do not get it wrong, people did try to get her out of the predicament and they did try to rekindle us years ago too. She chose the predicament whether it was "stable" or she was threatened by her abusers or not to bring further shame to her family or whatever. I did not even recognise her.>34518301
>>34512371>demanded me to get back with her, pay her divorce fees and make her happyWTF, is this a wind up? Tell them to get fucked and get on with your life.
